I used to be really happy and always calm, chilled out and nothing ever really fazed me until a lot of things changed, i went through a stage of pretty bad depression and although i am kinda pretty much out of it i'm still a little up and down nowadays. i am very down with myself and i always find myself angry and/or worried about something. i get panic attacks and everything gets into a big issue for me when i know before it wouldn't of bothered me and shouldn't really now. it kinda sucks.. what does anyone think? i have never taken anti-depressants or been to much counselling, i am a bit reluctant to.. just wondering if anyone does or has advice? thanks.

This guy I've know for a year is getting on my nerves. He is muslim and i am christian. We were dating for 4 months and everthing was wonderful. Then all of a sudden he started acting distant. Not calling me etc. He told me that his ex girlfriend asked his aunt to come and speak on her behalf and she wants to get backwith him. He would consider it! So he tells me this, of course i am furious, because he claimed to love me and we talked about having a future together. So ends up he did not get back with the girl but she still wants him. But we broke up because he felt that i was to much older than him. So I said F@#$ it I am not dealing with this I am moving on We broke up. 2 months went by and I am going on dates etc. He calls me my stupid butt decides maybe we can work things out, and we did, for 7 months, Then the calls stopped, he tells me that he gets scared because he is afraid to get hurt again. But he said that he is going to marry me and he does love me.Help!

I'm in love with my Boss. which is a happily married guy! not that I ever mentioned it to anyone, I just keep having dreams about him I can't help it. I have no intention to do anything about it but it is there.

I am a hairy guy, not like 100% covered with hair, not even 60%, but i got hair on my shoulders, chest, stomach, and some on my back, and on my neck, as well as the other normal places. Everytime i look at my self in the mirror i find it unattractive, but i also think: i am a man, looking at a man, ofcourse i wont find my self unattractive (i am heterosexual/not gay). I am wondering if i should go through the extreme trouble of having to wax frequently or not. and for me, this only depends on one thing, do girls find hair attractive?

I was watching a band play one night. The guitar player was checking me out and grabbed my number after his gig finished. We dated a few times over a month or so. Contact was minimal as he works a lot and he had just broken up with someone. I felt myself falling in love with him, he is a sweet sweet man. Then he texted me and told me that he isn't ready for a girlfriend although he really likes me. He's having a drama right now because he hates the band he plays in and is questioning his career choice. I have such strong feelings for him and he doesn't want me. My heart is breaking.

Can some one give me advice. This is a really long story and I need to shorten it. My brother is going thru a divorce, he has two children. His wife soon to be exwife has accused him of spousal abuse. Which is not true. Some one in the legal field has been coaching her on how to "Win" or get everything. (She is lazy and doesn't want to work) She would rather be on state aide. And in the past she has received state aide under false conditions. She even got pregnant with her second child because they (the State) was going to make her go to school or get a job. She drinks alot, I mean ALOT. And take the kids to the bar with her. She also has been seeing another man, I caught them together tonight. My brother doesn't care on that part he wants another man to take her...... I just do not understand how our "Great Justice System" can let this women deceive them. I do understand there are abusived women who do need our system to be there and work. After witnessing this mess I really do wonder how many innocent people are in jail. And if you had the right coaching you could frame anybody. I do know when he goes to court the charges will be dismissed but until then, he can not go home or see his children. I know she is/was my ex, but she is a loser as a human being. And now her eldest daughter is just like her, having a baby so she doesn't have to go to school or work. I feel the only chance my niece and nephew have is spending time at my house so they know what a home should be like. Not sleeping in the van in your costume on holloween night so your MOM can sit at the bar. I called our local police department recently after she was in the bar for 8 and 1/2 hours with the kids. I wanted to get them and bring them to my house and they said there is no law stating a parent can not have children in a bar. Sad thing is she loads them in the van and drives home.......She already has 1 DUI. IT DEPRESSES ME!!!!!!

Long story, short got back together with the ex again...this will be the 2nd time. We're talking its great except for a few problems. 1. I think she's spying on me. I was speaking with this girl online before we got back together, well this girl is really trying hard to seduce me. I keep telling her that so long as there's a chance with my ex I'm not going to ruin it. Instead she's oh lets have phone sex she'll never know. I told her I'd know, and I couldn't. 2. My ex is going to join a gym and I'm freaking worried to death that she's going to meet someone. Yah childish? Yes. Insecure? Yes. I understand that but the feelings remain. Since everything is still so fragile right now I'm just worried. So I decided I'm not going to confront my ex about the spying thing, I could be wrong about it. But I'm not sure what to do with this whole gym thing. Really worried about it so should I pull back so I don't get hurt or trust her? I don't know I'm freaking out and worrying here.

UGH ok. I got married to young, and for the wrong reasons. I felt pressured like I had to. I wasn't over my ex-boyfriend and I'm still not. He was everything to me. I've been married for 2 1/2 years and I am miserable. I have such dreams and I'm a very spontaneous, lively person. My husband isn't. He picks watching cartoons (wtf?) over spending time with me. I find all his habits annoying..he is constantly burping, farting, SCRATCHING! So I saw this guy that was my childhood friend. We exchanged cell phone numbers and we hung out. I didn't talk to him for a few weeks and then this past weekend I saw him again.I cheated. I have NEVER cheated on anybody in my life. I should be feeling guilty but instead I'm more worried about not ever seeing or being with this guy again. My husband knew I was hanging out with him and then yesterday said he had no reason to be jealous cuz basically who else would want me. Maybe he's right cuz I haven't heard from "the guy" in a few days.Thanx for listenin