Do you ever feel like ending a life because it's got too complicated, and just moving on? I'll be out with my friends and sometimes I just feel too overwhelmed by all the histories and complications. I mean, I've known these people for less than 2 years, but I'll be sitting in a room with say, 10 people, and I guarantee I will have made out with most of them before, had a fling of some sort with a couple of them, there will be a few with unrequited crushes on me, there will be at least one person I have an unrequited crush on... Then you add in complications regarding who among them likes who else among them... It just overwhelms me sometimes, having shared *something* with all of these people, having all these memories jumping on me every time I look at them... It sometimes makes me wish I could just leave, cut all contact, start again somewhere else. I know I won't, and I know I don't really want to, I would hate to lose them, but sometimes it seems a really attractive prospect.

I am in love with a guy. We never got together. I think that we should have. I have seen him on several sites like classmates and so on. I haven't spoken to him in ten years, since high school.Should I email him?

I don't get it. I went out and for the first time ever I was actually happy around people, but still I come home and cut myself. There's blood trickleing down my chest even now. I can't seem to stop.

I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we've lived together for 6 of the 8. He asked me to marry him this past weekend and I can't find the words to describe how happy I am. Problem is he's 21 & I'm 25. Do you think the age difference may become an issue in the future? (he's more mature than 1/2 of the 25 year old guys I know) Also, are we moving too fast? Neither of has been in a long term relationship before but he has become my best friend & vice-versa. Neither of us are in any hurry to get married- I just wanted to know we were committed to each other and he understands. Any suggestions/opinions would be greatly appreciated.

During the last ten years I've worked my way into the #2 position in a small company (25 employees). Along the way I've somehow managed to give everyone the impression I work my tail off. That couldn't be farther from the truth. In fact, I spend all day goofing off and surfing the net. I actually "work" about one hour a day most days. This is partly due to the fact that I work with some really dim people. Not only has no one caught on, but my boss is constantly trying to convince me to unload more of my responsibilties onto coworkers. Sounds great, right? The problem is that I get paid much more than anyone else here, and many of them do work really hard. Lately I've been feeling a lot of guilt about this. I've considered buckling down and contributing 100%, but how do I explain the sudden surge in output?

I went to the casino thats about 3 hours from my house yesterday and put 5,000 down on the blackjack table. In an hour I had a profit of 7,500. So i leave with 12,500. Today i go back and lose 6,000 of it. Im sure that i will go back tomorrow and gamble the rest. I am so addicted to gambling....only blackjack though. I have won as much as 23,000 in one day and lost as much as 18,000. But here is the thing, if i loose i wont go for about two months, but if i win im there at least 5 times a week. Anyone else this addicted?

After 3 months of dating my boyfriend i finally met his father. I think that i made a good impression. His ex asked me what i thought of my b/f dad and i said he was great! She said that if i went to church with him that i would make an even better impression. What should i do?

I have a boyfriend that I have been with for about 6 or 7 months. I love him more then life its self but I have been talking with other guys and girls on the side. Nothing to serious but still not right when someones in a relashinship. Should I stop so I don't hurt him or should I do what makes me happy?