Single girls at work bug the hell out of me. I espically love the ones in relationships that complain about their boyfriends. "Theres no nice guys out there" Saying they dont care about how a guy looks, as long as hes funny and nice! Now I dont consider myself ugly by any means. Had enough luck so far. I've been single for 6 months now (3 was the previous record) and it bugs the hell out of me every time I hear it. Now I usually just listen offer whatever advice and get back to whatever. I was always raised to treat a lady right. Not one of my girlfriends has ever said anything negative about how I treated them. Never cheated, never played games. So why the flipping bad luck?

I feel burnt. Every time things get too intense, requiring some sort of emotional attachment, letting anyone get close to me I feel this overwhelming urge to run, just to get out of the situation and away, alone. I used to always take emotional risks, and I've been hurt before, and I always knew someday I would be hurt so badly I would want to withdraw and put walls up and I always said I wouldn't let myself. I always wanted to live fully, and thought the good was worth the bad and I would rather risk pain than not experience joy fully. But it's so hard to do now it's come to it. I have friends who need me, and I try to be there, but the whole time I'm itching to run away, keep them at arm's length, and sometimes I've given in and escaped and I've hurt people with my distance. Any time I'm with someone I think I could feel something more for, as soon as it looks like something other than sex and fun I want to escape and run and hide from them and my feelings.

I've lost all motivation at work, and I can't seem to get back on track. My boss is pretty checked out, so he is unaware that I'm spending 90% of my time just screwing around on the internet. I'm getting paid WAY too much to be farting around like this.

I saw that ex-teacher I'm close with a couple of weeks ago. I didn't bring up my ED (he knows i have one though i told him in october), but he noticed the difference since the last time i saw him was 3 and 1/2 months ago. He said i looked like the poster girl for auschwitz, and how he's afraid of the day he wont see me ever again. We talked and I really was motivated to do something. I tried and after just one day i gave up. I freaked and i oded on laxatives 2 times in the past 2 weeks. And i feel like this huge failure. I saw him again this past friday and while nothing serious came up, before i left he gave me this huge hug and it was all really sad and i feel like it sounds so easy. Just eat and everything is fixed. Damn it i wish that was all it took. But it's so much more than that. And this man is like a father to me and I'm completely letting him down but I can't do anything about it because im too freakin afraid. I feel so worthless and stupid.

I said something to make my boss look stupid, but of course it just made me look like an asshole! Time to to work on kindness and self-esteem some more, so I can deal gracefully with difficult people.

im in love with a guy that i work with. he was seeing another girl from work but she left him to go back to her ex. after he stopped seeing her, i started to find myself attracted to him. i know he likes me too coz we have slept together. my problem is that i would like to have a relationship with him, but i dont know how to tell him. im very scarred and i dont think i could handle it if he said he didnt want to. please help me, i want him, but i dont want to be rejected! please help me. what should i do?

I am so fucking glad she left on her trip. I was sick of hearing for four hours a day about how marvelous her trip to Europe would be. Hopefully she'll be gone for a really, really long time. She is so whiny and rich and I can't stand whiny rich people.

I am having trouble in school. I play tennis and my grades are rapidly dropping. I don't have time to study because of matches. Plus I want to make more time for my girlfriend. Who i love a lot. There are not enough hours in a day. What should i do?