Lately it seems as if everything that could go wrong has: I've lost my great grandmother and two great uncles, my dog died while I was off to college, my mother has been diagnosed as clinically depressed and I know that it is because of me leaving for college, my brother is now an only child, I failed two classes last semester because of all of this, and now by best friend has deserted me. I am sure that there are people out there worse off than I am, but lately, it seems as though there is no end, my girlfriend of two and a half years has committed one of the ultimate sins by committing adultry against me, and it happened over six months ago, she has just now admitted it to me. All of this caused me to commit a hefty sin, I questioned the lord god, and now I regret it, I just want to know why, what have I done to deserve this? What should I do?

I'm losing my mind. I finished off a bottle of rum and simply destroyed a box of knickknacks from my childhood. I smashed all of it to pieces. Useless garbage. I threw the glass into a picture on the wall and destroyed that too before I calmed down. I gathered it all up and threw it in the dumpster with many other things. I hate everything in my apartment -- the furniture, the mementos -- all of it. I want to get rid of it all. Things I never use or even look at. Everything I don’t need. I hate all of it. It's like living with a corpse. It drives me mad.

I always always fall for the 'bad' guy, and after a few months of getting my head together after a particulary bad breakup, I'm ready to move on, and I think I've found the guy I want to be with, he's nothing like other blokes I've been with, and I think I'm falling for him, we spend a lot of time together, and I'm seriously attracted to him, physically and interlectually. The only problem is that he is my housemate, and I'm unsure about acting on my feelings, but it's not often I feel this way about someone. I don't want to ruin the relationship we have already.What should I do?

I've been with my lady for over 3 1/2 years, and I've held shit in. Before I had asked her out, I told her that I was a virgin. And in reality, i wasn't. I have had sex once. Not that that matters. So we're together and we have the most amazing two years, but when i started wanting to get back to my music, and she's been so mean and unsupportive of it and my way of life. After dedicating myself to her everyday of my life, this is what I got each day after those two years. All this bickering and fighting we've had with each other, I was growing tired. But I love her, althoguh she doesn't think so. My friend was with this girl that he started dating, and me, him, and her would hang out on some nights. Somehow she got my screename, and we would chat, and she would start flirting with me. Needless to say, I cheated on my girlfriend with her, hile this girl was still with my friend. None of them know, and I am guilt-stricken. Nothing's going right. What should I do?

I was married for 30 years and found out recently my wife has been cheating on me for the last 15 years with my best friend. I was the last to find out and the sad thing is i wanted to just forgive and forget but she just uped and left. They'v moved in together in the town i live in and i'm sure people are laughing at me. Before she left we had a frank talk, and she said that it was sex which was the problem but she always said she'd stopped wanting sex after a hystarectamy years ago. Which although i never liked i always thought i was being suportive not making a big deal about it. My life or whats left of it is ruined, i have no family and my friends have all sided with my best friend. The last 15 years have been a lie and what i considered to be fond memories are now tainted. I am due to retire soon and i realise i will die alone. I have never been very sociable and find it hard to talk to new people. I just want my wife back. how can she do this when i love her so much.

I recently had my first kiss. This guy french kissed me, it was so nice for me, but Im not sure how it was for him. Because I haven't been kissed before, I did not know what to do with my tounge. What should I have done with mine while his tounge was in my mouth??? He must of thought I was a total loser, as I have not heard from him since then. Should I be bothered that I have not heard from him yet? Also, I need as many views on this question as possible, Is it pathetic that I only had my first kiss at the age of 19??

One of my best friends is all over her guy. I mean, kissing and groping in class...I know they slept together but it is like they want to f*** each other in class. And they don't care who is watching them. I tried to tell her to cool it but she just won't listen to me. And my other best friends in that class too is getting really fed up with it. I don't know what to do!!!

I'm really in love with this man I've been living with for eight months and his three kids he's 31 and I'm 19 but I love my life, my problem is he doesn't know how to communictae and he never wants to have sex. I've tried everything. Any suggestions?