I'm having a problem with one of my husband's friends. He is our neighbor, and his wife is a pathological liar. He hits on me constantly whenever they come over for dinner (most of the time they invite themselves) and then his wife will tell me how he hits their daughter (I've never seen a bruise on their child.) I'm worried because the guy is dumb, and slightly crazy; and his wife has proven more than once that she's just as nuts as he is. How do I keep from having contact with them when he's in my husband's platoon, and having to be nice (or even remotely civil) is imminent?

i have a secret valentine confession i love somebody i shouldnt love - he's married! but hes the bestest man ive ever met - hes kind, generous, cute, sweet, gorgeous, sexy, perfect in every way! and ive fallen for him big time! we've kissed quite alot but nothing else really. no words can describe how great he is and my stupid heart is wasted on a married man with kids! i know what people will say - get on with your life forget about him but i cant not a minute goes by that i dont think about him . i am trying to get on with my life though i have a long term boyfriend who loves me and i love him too but just not enough, not in the same way i love the man i cant have. anyway i just had to get that off my chest before i exploded!

Thanks everyone who sent comments,and voted on last admit.I have talked to her about this many times.I do better banging my head against the wall.She got prozac this week from her doc. but she doesn't like the side affects. So I guess she wants to be a "old, fat, divorced, woman".

Hello again, Thanks for all that replied and advised me, but I still don't have a proper answer. What do we guys have to do, in order to get some love back? I don't mean sex all the time, but the usual cuddling and kissing etc. which I love. Or better yet, what if the roles were reversed, in that she wants more loving and I turn a blind eye? What would you do girls? Help!!

I'm cheating on my amazing, loving, sweet boyfriend with a guy I'm developing a fling-like crush on. I feel like a complete bitch, and I know I am, but my boyfriend is sane and boring, and this guy is fun to be with. I feel horrible, but I can't stop this fling because it's just so much fun.

Hello my name is james i have a problem with girls. I know that i am not the best looking guy out there but the way i see it is beauty is only skin deep but most girls only look for the looks and not the soul if anybody has any info on what to do PLEASE HELP

Another update as to whats going on in my life. Well surprisingly she caved in, and emailed me telling me she couldn't help thinking about me, and is missing me. We talked on the phone, and I told her I wasn't going to spend my time chasing her that if she wanted to be with me then thats it no more games. She agreed, and it's been great since. I think it was just a matter of asserting myself with her. Everything is going so well now. She's calling me every night, sending me e-cards, emailing me at work telling me she misses me, and is thinking about me. Truthfully this behaivor has kind of floored me, she's normally very reserved when it comes to how she feels, and what she's thinking. Guess she's decided to open up to me and I'm happy she has. I just want to thank everyone was supportive, and positive to me. You all are truly are a blessing.

i dont know what to do i hate my job at the min!i work at an office and i have had a big bust up with the boss well this was last week and we havent spoken a word since, its because of one of the lads in the office,me n him had a row cause he is jelous of my boyfriend and the boss stuck up for him and had a right go at me and said he was going to beat up my fella, the thing is its not as easy just to leave and find a new job because this one isnt bad money and ive just started renting a flat so i really need all the money i can get at the min,i worked here before but they sacked me then asked me to come back so i did IDIOT in the midde of that time i worked in a bar and i cant go back to that cuz i will never see my b/f as they are long hours.but im really unhappy in this job, any ideas what i can do?please dont say talk to the boss cuz he isnt that sort of person he is a w****r and he wouldnt listen!