hey everyone well see heres the thing i took yalls advice and didnt worry bout age, well i am going out with this guy now but all i think about is another guy , is that so wrong ..do u think i should tell the other guy how i feel about him?OH what should i do, i really love the guy i am with though and dont wanna hurt him.

A while back, my girlfriend and I came in from the pool. We stopped in the lounge before going upstairs. We met an older man there. He started talking real nasty, saying "if I were 20 years younger"....blah blah blah. We invited him upstairs with us and took him back 20 years.

Well last night I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and well the conversation got a bit hot. She said that she had masterbated to a fantasy about me. She is kind of shy so this really floored me was like wow. But anyways I decided to take a shot and see if I could get her to masterbate on the phone for me. Well I started describing all the things I wanted to do to her. In very great detail. After I finished describing what I wanted to do. I was very excited so was she. Only it didn't work out way I had planned. She said something (her voice was very soft) I didn't catch then said she had to go and hung up. So there I was all worked up and confused I called her back later to see if she was alright she assured me she was and that was that. Well I got an email from her this morning talking about how while she was aroused she didn't was worried that she was giving me the wrong impression. I do understand where she's coming from and I totally respect her. But still...

I've just read a letter stating that I've been "dismissed" from college. As of right now, I'm about 9 credits away from graduating. Up until a year or two ago, I had thought I knew what I wanted in life. But recently, I've been having doubts about my major. Do I really want this? Am I willing to accept where I'm being taken? I've simply lost my motivation to continue, but I must move on. My grandpa, who has little time left, has been inquring about my graduation date. I can't let him down. Nor can I let my parents down. I just can't piss away people's expectations like this. I'll do whatever it is in my power to re-enroll and finish what I started. Right now, however, I have no idea where I should turn to.

Hi people, this is just an update on my pathetic life. Remember I had a crush on a guy i worked with, and we ended up sleeping together, then we sort of started seeing eachother. Well its over now!! Im such a looser, an i knew it wouldnt work, so i really dont know why i bothered in the first place. Men are never interested in me for more than 5 minutes. I was so excited to think that he could actually like me, but really, i was just a distraction from something much better an more worthwhile than me. Do you think i should turn to women instead of men?

For several months now, I've been secretly IMing and e-mail my ex sister-in-law. She's the same age as me, sexually unsatisfied and unhappy in her marriage. It all began innocently enough - just me trying to catch her off-guard. But things have gotten pretty intense lately. She has no idea it's me, who she's been talking to and sharing secrets with. She's been pretty open with what she's been telling me, including some of her sexual fantasies. Now she wants to meet me (the guy she thinks I am) off-line -- to fulfill some of the fantasies she's told me about - some of the fantasies I've been sharing with her. Off-line, I am attracted to her. God knows how many times I've had to control myself around her and just not start with her, doing what I know she wants done... What do I do?

Life goes inexorably on. The holidays were pleasant, quiet. Perhaps for my own good, I did remarkably little of the work I brought home with me. Now, though, the school year is in full swing, and I’ve been busy at various projects, among them teaching a new class of undergraduates. To my great surprise, a chance encounter (refreshingly unrelated to school) has introduced me to a potential romance. The girl in question, though, is very dedicated to her career, which has made the process of getting to know her better unnecessarily lengthy and complicated. I’ve been ‘playing it cool’ while she’s been too busy to meet. But, honestly, I can’t wait to see her again and see what happens. On her word, that should be soon. You can imagine my curiosity.

My husband and I are about to celebrate 25 years of marriage. We both love and enjoy sex (sometimes kinky). Is there any suggestions to rock his world the night of our anniversary? I really want to give him the ultimate "O" the one he will not forget. I am a very open minded woman. Honey "G"