My best friend and I have known each other 15 years. We're now both married. Over the years we've had a few joint sexual experiences, with a couple of women, including his wife. Two years ago when drunk we involved each other for the first time, just masturbating each other. The same thing happened a month ago, when I stayed over at his place while his wife was away. I have no sexual feelings for any other man, couldn't even consider kissing him, yet want more mutual masturbation, and further activity if possible. Pretty sure he'd want the same, although we've never talked about it. I fantasise about it regularly. It's no threat to our respective marriages, provided of course nobody finds out.

Hi, I have a confession which probably applies to a lot of other guys too and that is I don't get enough sex. Before everyone says yeah yeah yeah, that's all we guys need, let me assure you that I do my part, have a great job, help her out in anything she needs and a great friend. So, this is really affecting our relationship and I want to know from others what to do and any help would be great!

I'm worried about whats happening to society especially with gender issues. I never agreed with the opression of women and them being treat as a sex objects on tv and in magazines ect. but i think that maybe rather than equality we've got a situation where now women have become the 'new men'. Now men are always sterotyped as sex obbsessed idiots on tv and i genuinely feel guilty about how my sex treat women in the past so much so that i feel bad for thinking all of this. Women seem to be behaving more and more like the men they demonised of the past. :) and i worry where it will all lead

April 1986 I went to bed with a older woman,she was 60years old ,I was only 28. We went to to the same Church,I helped her out a few times.We are both single never married. One Sunday evening ,I finish doing some heavy work for her and she invited me to stay for dinner,she prepared dinner,I ask if she required assistence,it was not required but we sat at the table and comsumed liquior. The conversation went from general opinion to have I had sex. She left the kitchen to one of the bedrooms and I followed,next thing that happen she laid on the bed and pulled down her panties and I started getting undressed and so did she. We were both in bed with each for about 8 hours we were both intoxicated and the experience was a shock to each other afterwards

My mom and dad divorced about 7 years ago and he moved to another city a few years later. I go visit him in the school holidays and a year ago he met someone online and now they're madly in love. She's much younger then him and she still lives with her mom and dad. She's never been married or had kids and if my dad marries her (which he's thinking of doing) they'll have to have kids. I'm not being selfish I mean I want him to be happy but I dunno if I can go through with this. Marriage is a big thing and a child is a big thing. They're even picking out names! I'm just so scared and unsure about this whole thing. I just want someone to talk to about it. Thankyou.....

I'm supposed to be getting married pretty soon and I would like to have my man's family present. He doesn't seem interested though and I know my family won't be attending (he can't stand them). We're getting married 2 1/2 hours away from our home and his family has always been good to both of us and on my side of the family, I've had alot of problems. Am I wrong to not even care that my family won't b going? I just want to marry my man already we're going on our 8 yr anniversary.

Ok - I'm 31, single mom, been at the same job making a check to check living but doing ok. There is no advancement where I work and I feel like, not only my job but my life is in a rut. I have no man and if I did it wouldn't make a difference in how I feel. It's about me dang it. I feel like I need a change somehow...just this feeling is dragging me down and I can't get out of it. I've never been married and I have been raising my son by myself. I have my kiddo 24/7 365 days of the year. Except for those handful of times where I'll get a babysitter for the night so I can cut loose. I honestly feel like walking out of my life right now. Not my son, but my life - as in, my job. Job is stressful and I think I just need a long vacation....but where??? And how??? I'm paycheck to paycheck....who will watch my kiddo so I can actually RELAX.....Gosh it feels like a fantasy I'll never have. Love my son, but I need a break from him too. What to do?? I know I'm not the only one??

The first chirstmas that was not mine. This was a christmas that was not mine. The only thing that I wan't to admit as that I didn't even care. I worked overnight, at a house for "special" folks. They enjoyed their christmas much more than I would have enjoyed mine (being elsewhere.) They didn't have anywhere to be, and me being there ment more than I'll ever know. The girl that I'm "seeing," acutally, not really seeing at all. Not my choice, some sort of emotional difficulties on her part, said this was the first christmas that she hasn't cried. So I started today feeling like I got shit on, but ended thinking.....maybe I don't even know. I was around because I had to be, nothing more. It's something else to realize that the little things I don't care about mean so much more to others, and I had to be here today, to learn that lesson.