Hi Everyone. I have decided to admit all my secrets, it seems. Im so disorganised, always looking for something better and very moody. Im lazy and unmotivated unless it comes to going out an havin a good time. I have a huge crush on a guy, and he likes me, but im not sure if im just a conquest for him, or if he really likes me. Im scared im going to get hurt. I think once ive slept with him, it will be over. What should i do??

I have always liked younger girls, and even more so the older I get. If you don't know a person's age in a chat room, is it ok to talk dirty, or let them see you on cam pleasuring yourself, even if you're imagining that they're very young and that's the part that's turning you on?

Me and my boyfriend were down at his house yesterday, and He was flirting with my best friend who likes him, and her cousin, who already as a boyfriend but is having problems with him. I'm mad at him, because he doesn't need to flirt back to them just because they're flirting with him, and he thinks I'm holding a grudge over nothing. He just doesn't seem to realize how much it hurts to see someone you love and are dating flirt with your best friend right in front of you. I need someone's advice on what to do, I don't want to break up with him, because I love him so much and I have been going out with him for exactly yen months today. But if worst comes to worst it may be the only solution I have. I don't want it to come to that though. He really means the world to me and I don't want to lose him. Can someone please help me out with my problem. I can't ask my mom, because she doesn't understand, and I don't have a sister so this was my last resort. Please everyone help me out I am lost.

hey everybody can someone please tell me whats wrong with me? i mean here is my situation ok i am not a bad looking person and i get along with everybody i have alot of guy friends but no boyfriends...i mean whenever i am somewhere i go over and talk to guys and stuff but we end up just being friends alwayz...what should i do?

I had dinner alone tonight. I do usually, but tonight was too quiet. A horrible solitude. What can you do, though? Sometimes even I am amazed at the stupidity of modern life. There are undoubtedly many more people than me out there, even in my own city, wondering why they -intelligent, friendly, even in many ways attractive individuals- are sitting home alone eating take-out, wondering just where it is they could meet that person who would make all the difference.

It always happens to me that whenever I am overwhelmed or feeling really helpless I just tend to give up. Giving up like 99.9% the time. But I am surprised that somehow things worked out the way I wanted it to in the end. That 1% is the little tiny hope that keeps me moving forward. I've learned that there is always a way whatever any shape or form it will make your situations better or can we say it's not the end of the world.

Some time ago I hid a video camera and taped me and my girlfriend having sex (with the freaky night vision a la Paris Hilton). She found the tape recently and was a bit pissed. She got over it though and now she actually snaps pics of the both of us getting it on. My next project is to get her to agree to a full-on amateur film (for our private use only sillies!).

People see me as a shy quiet married guy in his 40's but I have a dark side that I keep secret. I'm obsessed with online chat and webcam sessions. It started about a year ago. I go on almost everynight when my wife is asleep. It started with women and now I find myself chatting with men and using my webcam to get off. Am I insane? Sick? What do I do?