I've been in a relationship for five years, and we're happy, but never 100% so. Our sex life has dwindled to a bimonthly event (at best). I'm still attracted to my girlfriend, but I wish she would take the time to look hot for me and not just when others are around or when we go out. The problems we have always crop up, and we know that most likely certain things will always be difficult for us. It makes us wonder what will come next. I have to admit that all of the above might just be an excuse. I've had a crush on another girl for several years now. Every time I get to know her, I like her even more. She lives way north of us, and I haven't heard from her in a while now. it's driving me crazy! I keep wondering if I blew a golden opportunity, or am just being selfish for wanting something better. Either way, it's downright painful thinking of this other girl and what could be or might've been.

Well, I asked the girl out. Guess what she said. " I prefer if we go as friends and with other people." I nearly went mad but I had to stay calm on the phone. She was so sweet about it but I nearly pulled my hair out! Maybe we're too young. I'll wait a while before I make my next move.

On the subject of people at 4am... "Now, as for people...I honestly don't know what the hell to tell you, haha, I'm still trying to figure out that one but, it really ends up being a matter of trust, which comes back to expectation and dependence. If you expect too much from other people and depend too much on them...place too much trust in them, then you will only become more and more disappointed when you find out just how little you know about them. Obviously, you can't define people as any one truth or set of truths...All you can expect from someone is their past, which leaves their entire future in question. This begs the question I'm sure, "If you know nothing about people to begin with, how do you know what to expect from them?" And the simple answer is that you don't. All you know is that there is some amount of everything that you are willing to accept. Nor do you ever fully know how much that encompasses, only that some people are more particular than others.(lim)

Hey, it's me again! Search for "My little brother is a real". My bro and I are getting better at getting along. I am rather overweight, and many kids make fun of me at school. Even the 1st graders. I have thought about committing suicide, but i read these stories, and, you all sound sad when a relative dies. My dad says that there are many important things in life, but I LOST THE REMOTE!

When I was drunk, a while ago, I upset one of my flatmates (who I'm not exactly close to) by referring to her in a less than pleasant manner, involving the words 'fat' and 'bitch', when I didn't realize she was present. I then wrote a long letter of apology to her when I sobered up, and later went up to her and got down on my knees to apologise. She accepted my apology. I have since found out that another one of my flatmates, her best friend, has decided to systematically alienate me from every one of my friends, in revenge. Oh joy. I suppose anyone who's really my friend won't fall for it, but it's still not very nice. I kinda thought she was my friend. And I think she's worked with some people already, including some of the new people who don't know me yet. Ah well.

I went out with a friends and the next day when I was still drunk I stole $20 out of her wallet. What was I thinking? The shame and guilt I feel is overwhelming. Should I admit it to her and risk looseing a friendship?

I like watching girls do bad things to themselves... I wish more would do it. are women as horny as guys??

I went out last night with my boyfriend and another couple which we have known for 3 years now. The girl is one of my best friends and we have always got on really well. We had same vine (too much), had a great night out but as soon as we left the pub I remember the two of us started shouting at each other, we said same bad things. I really can not remember anything esle apart form yelling very loudly. My boyfriend is clearly well upset with me.We were supossed to go to a party today (together). When I got back form work he was gone. He hasn't called ... I did sent a sms to my friend to apologise for last night but no reply... Did I manage to drive them away ???