I recently got married and I love my wife without hesitation. However, I have always been infactuated with my best friend from high school. She and I are extremely close and always had to approve of each other's relationships. In actuality, we were judging their mates to see if they could comapare to us. I have been in love with her for about 8 yrs but we could never get on the same page at the same time. About a year ago, I finally decided to let go of my romatic love for her and thats when I met my wife. Now 4 months after being married I find myself wondering what could have been. My best friend is coming back to me for "sanity" as we call it. I want to be there for her like i always have, but at the same time I dont want my wife to get jealous. Im a man....we are inheritenly weak creatures. Im worried about my friend and my wife at the same time.

I haven't spoken to my mother in almost a year. We've had a rocky relationship since I was 13 years old. It was rocky in the beginning because of her decision to separate me from "bad" family, marrying a man that disgusted her (who was a great stepdad and whom she later separated me from), and basically being very anti-social and depressed. And it's rocky now because I simply won't forgive her until she's willing to talk about it all or AT LEAST acknowledge her screw-ups. Plus, since she married this rich guy, she's acquired the most stuck-up attitude/persona of all time. Anyway, I miss the cool mom she was when I was a kid...

My life is boring. I work, take care of the house and nothing else. I fantasize all the time about sex with anyone - man woman both. Am I sick? Am I wanting to have an affair? Should I? Any offers?

well still no better, we had great sex the other night, but it felt like it was just that SEX! She told me the next day that whe needs time and not to pressure her, I've been meeting her demands, but today she's going out with her girlfriends to the bar and staying overnight at a hotel....I normally trust her 100% but today I don;t feel right cause we are having serious problems, she hasn't been wearing her ring, and now she wants to stay out all night and leave me with the 3 kids to deal with...homework, dinner, chores and get them ready for school

OK.. about a onth ago me and Brian broke up... everything is cool and all.. but i like a guy named Kyle.. and i talk to him all the time.. but i doubt he likes me the way i like him.. Shane says i should ask him out and see what happens but i dont know if i should... what do you think? PS... about all the other e-admits i've done.. everything is better now.. so all you assholes that message me and tell me to just kill myself and get over it.. stop messaging me... it's assholes like you that make people like me think the way we do.. so stop being pricks....

thank you everyone who sent me advice about my situation with my gay best freind, i apreciated it. we truelly have a complicated relationship its always something else, but i always feel like i care more, wich i probably do. now he's not talking to me cause i hung up on him cause he wouldnt go shopping with me after i went with him three weeks in a row, he called me back a couple of hours later and said "are you through with your little hissy fit yet?" so i hung up on him again. i usually never hang up on him, so later i called him to apologise for hanging up and he didnt even call me back we havent talked in days so i email him just to let him know i was not appreciating the way he was acting, he wrote me back a 4 paragraph thing basically blaming me for everything. he always acts like this when i get mad at him. but it hurts when you give so much to a person and there seems to be no resiprosity so i refuse to apologise for feeling he should be there for me too. its what friends do.

I am currently in a relationship right now. We have been together for more than three years. Currently she is in another country right now, so we are doing this long distance relationship thing. We keep in contact often and we both love eachother very much. I know it and she knows it. I dont know when she will be coming back and neither does she. She just says we are not ready yet to really settle down. At my working place, I have this co-worker that I have been working with and we have been good friends since the beginning. She knows I have a girlfriend but I told her I was attracted to her and from there we started seeing each other and started going out and you know "one thing leads to another". Now me and her are so close, its is like we are a couple now. But there is still my girlfriend who does not know whats going on.

I haven't heard from my online friend in a while now. I'm beginning to think that our friendship might be over. In the past, when I haven't got any e-mails from others I knew that somehow probably they might have moved on. When the friendship was new, I never really cared for the person. Yes I e-mail him just to be wanted. Or at least makes my day bright. But lately, all I could think is him. He gave me his cell phone number but I couldn't call because of my present situation which is complicated. I really really wanted to be with this guy and I wanted to know how he is or does he ever think of me. It's a pain knowing that probably this friendship will end...