I hate my boyfriends kid. And I don't think he is a good parent. He refuses to punish the kid even when he wrecks MY stuff, sometimes I wish that little kid would just disappear from his life.

Life is crazy. I really don't know a head from a tail right now. I told one of my oldest friends that I was bisexual. She hasn't really mentioned it since I told her. I love my family a lot, but it eats me up that I can not be who I am.

I fall in and out of love at the drop of a dime. Which makes me wonder if I've ever really been in love. Maybe I'm just looking for someone who can give me that TV embrace. But in the mean time I'll keep lying to everyone and say that I don't believe in love.

OK, so there's this guy I've been dating off and on for about 4 months. He breaks up with me, but then still calls all the time. I'm his first serious girlfriend in 5 or 6 years and we're at the end of college so he constantly talks about how we'll be leaving soon. He has some issues with control and has admitted to me that he was very angry as a child. I feel like if I can just get through to him, I can help him or something, but lately he has insisted that he likes me, but just not enough...but I think he's just saying this because he's scared. He has been dumped by every girlfriend he's ever had and he knows that' I've been the one to end all of my relationships. Also, he knows that I am a bit of a flirt and have no trouble getting guys. All of my friends tell me that I am way better looking than him and he is just scared that he will start liking me alot and I'll dump him. The thing is, I cannot get over him...so i keep trying to make this work, but nothing changes...

I've slept with my best friend's ex boyfriend numerous times and it was great sex, so I really don't feel bad about it. However, rumors spread and she ended up hearing about us hooking up. I swore to her that all we did was make out, and only one time, even though we had sex about 5 times and the last time it happened, I was kind of dating his roomate/best friend. We just have this incredible sexual attraction...we can't help it. It hasn't happened in about 4 months, and I don't intend for it to happen again, but whatever.....it was worth it!!

My wife has given me until Jan 2005 to change or she's divorcing me. We have 3 kids, 2 from her previous relationship. We both work lots. I have done the initail stuff she wanted, quit smoking, help with the kids more, drink less, etc. It still doesn't seem good enough. I even started telling her more how much I love her, how good she looks, etc. I ask her how her day is all the time now. Still not enough! She has not changed, still taking shit from her ex. still letting the kids get away with everything! Is it hopeless? I love her, but am falling into OH WELL cause I'm tired of it, I'm a good guy I work hard give her everything, treat the kids like my own. Not sure what else to do.....SOMEONE HELP!

I am married and not really that happy. I look at my wife and wonder if I did it to save her and her child. Sex is irregular and not satisfing. We always argue over anything, doing the dishes, the laundry, letting the dogs in/out, who cleaned last. I am disgusted by her sometimes, yet I love her. I yell, she yells but sometimes it is like we need each other and everything is perfect. Now, here is the tricky part. I have a female friend at work, who I consider my soulmate, who just today told me she was separated from her husband and that she doesn't know that she wants. She discribes a life outside of work that is a mirror of my own. I know we could be great together and for years I have prayed and wondered why we never met first. I have wondered myself to sleep about her and my feelings for her. I don't know if this is a dream come true.

having to choose between my ex who acts like she still needs me, and soemone who might beable to really be there for me. what to do, waht to do