I am unhappily married with three kids....financial reasons make me stay in an emotionally abusive relationship. i have been having an on going affair with an also unhappily married co worker...it's been going on for over two years. i don't think that anyone suspects anything, but at times it's difficult to be in the same room with one another and not touch...any suggestions?

I was on the phone with my friend (lover?) and she got in trouble with her fiance. He was sleeping and we were talking and I think she said something that he took out of context and he was upset at her about it the next day. It was innocent because I decided that it isn't fair what I'm doing to him he doesn't deserve it so I've been watching myself. But anyways thanks for the advice everyone. One last poll are you guys sure I should end it? *chuckles* I'm not really looking forward to only masterbation and no romantic female interaction :( Really going to miss the cuddling and the long talks but I'll abide whatever is decided. Maybe...I'm so weak *laughs*

Hi there, this is going to sound weird to a lot of people but anyway here goes... I'm 15 years old and from Ireland and for the past 2 years or so I have been fantasising about my sister. I know it must seem pretty sick :-( She's 23 years old and she's full time dancer and I have always looked up to her but recently we were watching a film on television in which 2 girls were kissing and ever since then I have been able to stop thinking about kissing her. She's really tall, long dark hair, beautiful eyes, fantastic body. I could obviously never tell her about this as she would be a bit freaked out so I'm wondering if maybe I should talk to my friends about it? They mite also think I'm crazy or something. Whenever my sister is out (and I am home from school) I will try on her clothes in her bedroom and imagine that we're lovers and I pleasure myself. She nearly came in and caught me one day but luckily she went to the bathroom first! What should I do????

I'm only sixteen, but I do believe I'm really in love with someone who is twenty-one years of age. We've known each other and have been close friends for nearly three years, so it's not like we're attracted to each other only by looks--it goes deeper than that. He lives far away, so it's not like we could do anything physical (and we haven't!); we've formed a bond based on friendship and pure love for each other's company. We both want it to be something more, but the distance is what gives our situation an unfavorable twist. Even if distance was not an issue, people seem to think it's wrong that someone my age sould be so attached to one that is five years my senior.

I've been seeing a guy for a little over a month now and just recently found out that he has been e-mailing his ex alot saying that he loves her. This ex lives in another country and he won't be seeing her for a long time but I still think it's wrong. He had told me that he wanted us to be exclusive. Was he being exclusive by being taken emotionally but being single physically? Should I keep him around for a while and still see other guys? Help me, please.

I'm at a really confusing point in my life. Just turn 18 n about to decide my career direction. And I'm beginning to wonder what my purpose is? my grades had been A to A+ all along and at the start I really wanted to get into medicine. i genuinely had a passion to do it. but then i failed my admission test. i know im capable and yet i can't get in there. so instead of med. i tried a health science but, now that dream is also fast fading too. I don't know where to go and what to do? I know that if i can't get in its usually because they found someone better or that maybe its faith that i wasn't accepted. but i am seriously stumped. maybe i need a reality check or something.

People say I am in love.We are exact opposites in everyway and i do mean in every way yet when we are toghter we work like a perfect team.Could it be true?

It seems that most people where I live already know that I'm a Sissy Transvestite Fag so I just wanted to comfirm this for everyone who seems to be so interested by it. So yes it's true and I totally love the fact that I am.