I love my girlfriend soo much but I often think about cheating on her. I know that there is no one this planet that could replace the way I feel about her. But I have this well I guess you could call it a fetish for Japanese girls and she isnt. So I have the option every day to go ahead a do some ramdom asian chick but I don't. What should I do?

Thinking back about the advice my online chum told me, I think it would really help me in my present situation. I think it is time that I become more spiritual or religious. I just need to leave my life in the hands of God and have faith that at least it will result in more positive ways.

Hello, I need a lil help. I go to this program,( 2 years now) And i opened up to a staff member and thought of her like a mom and we did so much together. And it took me a long time to open up to her! And she told me she would not leave me! She got fired and I don't know why !!! Now I have to start over with a new staff member and I 'm scared to open up to her and then loose Her to. What should I do?

I got this girl, see? and well, she is probobly the nicest girl in the world. She's nice, cute, great on the eyes, yet she says "I'm not here type". I'm bumming pretty hard about this. I don't know what to do. Should I try to get her to like me, even though she doesn't like me for a boyfriend? Or something else, because me head is on fire thinking about what to do.

My life is really miserable sometimes. The fact that I often have anxiety attacks and OCD which makes my life even hard. Lately, I've been having thoughts of ending my life. Probably taking a whole lot of pills then I die slowly. The part that sucks the most is if I do end my life there are other people that might end up hurt. Well, I'm stuck in a way. No hope for tomorrow and no future.

im having an affair with 4 guys at the moment, they all love me but i just like them n there r no serious feelings from my side. i just want to sleep with them n have a good time. i feel like im a cold hearted bitch! is there anybody outthere with similar "problems"?

A few weeks ago I met this guy online & we clicked with instantly...we were so much alike & got along so well it was almost scary. Personality & intelligence are paramount to me, so it didn't matter that I didn't think his pics were hot- he held my interest & was really sweet. He on the other hand told me that while my personality was what hooked him, he was also taken by my pics. After nights of IMing & phonecalls till 4am, we finally met up. I was pleasantly surprised, he was way cuter than his pics. He on the other hand was not pleased. In fact, tho he was totally friendly while we were out, he's all but stopped IMing me since we met, and when he does, the tone is TOTALLY different to how it was. We haven't talked on the phone AT ALL. I asked him about it outright, and he denied it, but I know it was something in my looks that put him off & that devestates me. I'm told quite often I'm pretty, but this has killed my confidence...what's so wrong with me that it put him off like this?

I am a straight guy, but I like to wear women's clothes. Most of the time just lingerie and nylons but sometimes I like to go a little further. I have gone out while wearing women's jeans (l.e.i., mudd, etc) and blouses. I get a thrill painting my toenails, wearing sheer stockings and then going to a shoe store and trying on womens shoes. I love going into a womens clothing store, picking out a pair of slacks and asking if I can try them on