I have a dilemma... I met this GREAT guy on Saturday night. He is one of my roommate's brother's friends, and we got along really well. He and my roommie's brother and another friend of his all came over to me and my roommate's apartment to watch a movie. By the time we got done it was like 3 in the morning and the three boys didn't want to drive back (like 20 min away) so my roomie and I told them they could stay with us. The sleeping options were: my bed (a double bed), the air mattress, the couch, and the twin sized trundle in my roomie's room. After like 30 min of hmming and hawing, the guy I liked wanted to sleep in my room. We ended up talking for almost 4 hours before we finally fell asleep, and he held me all night. He was very sweet and not at all pushy, trying to kiss me, etc. Before he left, he gave me a sweet kiss on the lips and got my number. But he hasn't called! What does this mean? It's been 2 days (as of today)... do you think he's interested? Will he call

Don't get me wrong, I love girls and the prettier the better but I have a problem with them. I have no interest in sex with them. Romance, sure. I can't get enough but when it comes to sex I'm totally turned off of everything. Just about the only way I can get excited is to either turn the lights out so I can't see them. Then it's still impossible to finish so I almost always have to fake it. I don't know why it's such a turn-off but it just is. Any other kind of intimacy I can handle but once it comes down to intercourse I just don't like it. I used to fantasize about having sex with them a lot but eventually that gave way to fantasizing about sex with men. Especially where I end up in the girl's place. Yet I have no romantic interest in men at all and have never been with one. I've found the idea is exciting at a distance but up close it becomes repulsive. So I while I admit I have gay thoughts I seem to have no intent, and though I have straight intent, I have no thoughts.

Over the past 3 or 4 months, I've been feeling really, well, weird. Not depressed, or sad, but just disgruntled. All I want to do is sleep, and nothing seems to really matter. I've had bouts of depression before, and believe me, this is different. I guess it doesn't help that I have no luck with women, and while I don't hate my job, I don't love it either. The thing is, I don't have a passion for anything. I can get myself out of bed to do the things that I need to do, but I don't feel a passion to do so. I could try changing jobs, but there's literally nothing I really want to do. Except be alone and sleep. Even when I get 8 or 9 hours sleep, I feel as I do when I only get 3 or 4. I often go long stretches, at work or home, staring and feeling perfectly happy not doing anything. We're talking anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour. I'm not sure if there's something wrong with me. I don't feel as if there is. I'm slowly beginning not to care.

I HATE SEX AND THE CITY it sucks and i loathe that type of mentality. with a passion i cant handle!! this programme is about 4 women who are so up their own arse they feel they deserve what Vogue and Elle magazine depict is the number 1 guy. but they look for this guy and put aside maybe a computer nerd who would fullfill thier dreams - but cos he wears gola trainers and not gucci shoes he doesnt fit the bill. thats why their 40 years old single and b^tching at other women for being with someone - their jelous. and the older they get the more slap they use and the more twisted and evil they become.. this is what women are tought to be like and the blind townies fools are followin that - fake tan and botox - YOU F^^KING SUCKERS!!! WITH A PASSION I CANT HANDLE!!

i have been with my boyfriend/fiance' for almost eight years now. i have cheated on him about thirty times, maybe more... hell i can't remember. lust is hell.

I got a bf. he's my bro's friend. he doesn't know that i'm with him. we r together for 5 months as a couple and a year as close friends. all friends of my bro's know that we r together n they were always making us to be away from my bro's eyes. now my bro goes to live abroad n they want to tell him. but i dont want to coz i've been lieing all the time n what will my bro think. neither my mom knows about us coz we never talk about boys, n i think that my parents think that i'm young to have bf. they say that 16 is the best time for that, i'm 14. i love him, i want to be with him, i dont know how to tell my bf tat i want to be free for 2 years and i that i want to waits me. now when my bro'll gone i want to tell my mom that i like him but not that he's my bf, but further when i plan to tell her that i want to him to be my bf i dont know what to except as a reply cz we've have no talk about that ever .... i dont know what to dopls tell me... ps. he wants to sleep with me...

I've got a curious question..I love giving my boyfriend a bl.wjob, and I think I'm pretty good at it. The thing is I wanna be better at it ..the best! :) and would like to ask the men on this site to tell me how I can improve my skills.. guys, tell me! I would like to know more about they best bl.wjob you ever had and why it was so good..

I work for a big software company and the liberal environment means you get to pick your own projects. i work amongst a team of 13 programmers and we all have our specilaities. I never commit to a project instead i just surf the net all day. when a project is running over schedule i offer to help looking like a hero. i've done this for 3 months. Yesterday my boss came down and said he'd heard good things about me and offered me a promotion to project manager. it was a choice btween me and rob, he could really use the promotion (wife kids ect.) he'd make a great manager!! he's really patient. he's been there longer than i have and he's a better programmer but noone notices him because he steps back and lets others take the credit. I should really say all this but i want the money. i feel so bad (it also means i wouldn't be able to surf the net all day)