I am going through an incredibly hard time right now...probably the toughest I have ever experienced. I have been living what some people probably think is the "perfect life"... great family, great job, beautiful home, blah, blah, blah. Things were going so well (too well...?) for so long that it absolutely hit me like a ton of bricks when ... I found out that my wife has been secretly having a relationship with another man. It did not get physical, but it came close. I think it began innocently enough, but I totally hit the roof when I found out... Their relationship is over, but my anger and disappointment in her and our marriage are not. Now I don't know what to do... Every option seems like a bad one.

I have a problem. I am in the process of starting a relationship with a woman online. But she is still in a relationship at this point, I am flying to go see her in about a month. I do not have doubts that she wants to be with me, I do not have any fears that she will F*** me over or anyting like that. I will be getting ther in a month and two weeks after that she will leave this guy. The reason she doesn't leave him before I get there is cause it is too dangerous. See if I can explain this correctly... he doesn't beat her, but he is physical, He's very verbal in abuse. you name something, he's called her it. and I've heard it, so has some of her other friends. Theres more but I can't say anything cause she has asked me not to. I know what it's called, Her other friend that knows, knows what it's called, she knows what it's called blah blha blha, that should give you a hint. Now.. I want her to move out before I get there. Do I have the right to ask her to move out before I get there?

i recently had the longest fight i have ever had with my soul sista and it was HELL but all is well now, we heard our song and just grinned at each other. : ) i love ya laney i couldn't live life without you, you inspire me!

there's this guy and we used to go to school together and i've recently started seeing him around lately and he would always come to see me specially like turning up at my dance classes to talk to me before class started. ne way, one night before dance he turned up and things got really hot and then before he left he kissed my forehead and said that i looked sexy and he couldn't wait to see me again. I'd liked him heaps before that night but after that i was totally smitten. only prob was that he disappeared for three weeks and had no contact with me. i was upset then angry and then over it. But then he turned up before dance one night, i acted like i was kinda pissed and asked where he'd been, he said nowhere. we talked and then before he left he kissed me and i realised i so wasn't over him but now i am really confused. does he like me?

Has anyone ever tried swinging, i'd like to know what to think about it and if you liked it. Do you have any tips for us.

Hi, I have been having this problem of not being able to motivate myself to study for years now. What can I do?

Ive always wondered what it would be like to have sex with a man. I ve never acted on it, but it plagues me. I dont know if i could bring myself to do it or if its just a fantasy. Am i weird?

i just cheeated on my bf of over 1 1/2 yearz. i feel like a jerk. i regret and it def will not happen again.