i have a tongue ring, its been about 8 months and i dunno if i should leave it in or take it out, i usually wear the retainer so ppl at work dont kno. i've been w/ my g/f 4 a while n it helped me get her in a way.. she doesnt care what i do, its not annoyin but it seems pointless anymore...

im an angry man - and it irritates me sometimes. My anger is down to quite a few things: 1. consumerism - people that feel it necessary to buy the correct things so they look a certain way - foolish sheep who dont think. 2. advertising - being told what to buy - and being fed a load of shit - like with hair products - they invent words for adverts - its bullshit but people buy into it! 3. media - i hate the attitude of the press and magazines 4. fashion - must have labels - bullshit - fashion stinks and so does the world surrounding it. 5. war - what is it good for - absuoltely nothing - and the yanks love it! 6. religion - make beleive bullshit that foolish weak people base their lives on. 7. work - selling my hours for a handfull of dimes! 8. america - becuase its just too big for its boots. I just want everything to be cool and everyone to think for themselves.

Ok, I was over my new girlfriends house and she was upstairs changing. I was hanging out in her kitchen when her mom walked in topless, because she was tanning. To get to the point her mom is super hot and I got a hard on, well her mom saw and walked over and asked if she could take care of it. I said yes, but now I feel bad because everytime I go over my girlfriend's house her mom is all over me more than she is. Should I tell my girlfriend what happened or just continue with this current lifestyle

I get very upset at people who post various things on websites with terrible spelling and abhorrent grammar. Is it so hard to at least display a mild understanding of the english language? I'm not asking for perfection, but come on, typing like a monkey on acid doesn't garner any sort of respect.

My best friend's exboyfriend and I have fooled around in the past(she knows and doesn't care). We hadn't seen each other for a while and now are in contact again. He has made it a point to let me know he is interested in hooking up and having a little fun. I would love to but need a way to sneak out of the house to see him. I am not in love with him and vice versa, just for fun, but man, what I wouldn't give for a night with him!! My boyfriend and his girlfriend would be furious, but I don't care. What they don't know won't hurt them as far as I am concerned. I would love to have him for a night. Just needed to vent that!!

i want to give him a call and i want to see him online or see him. this is very bad, i think i alreday hurt him i feel very very bad... the more we get communicate the more we get involved, and i know this is leading no-where but hurt. i don't want hurt any one help me keep slience

As time goes on, we all do things we regret, we try to justify our actions, and live with our decisions. The best solution is to avoid "stupid" behaviour before it starts. Self controll is paramount in us all living happy lives. I suggest that many who as for "permission" to do "stupid" things such as cheating on husbands/wives etc, try to reflect upon themselves and recognize the problems they have as opposed to trying to get an OK from an unseen face on the web to justify their actions. I am no different, I have made poor decisions. I am trying to reflect to solve the problem, and come up with solutions and action plans to prevent (or minimize) my stupid behaviour in the future. Buckle up, don't blame others, reflect upon yourself, and develop a plan to be good to the one's you love?

A good three years ago I used to go out with this amazing, gorgeous, special girl (K). Suffice to say that for some reason I didn't treat her like I should and ended up driving her away from me. We don't speak any more and I hadn't seen her for two years. When we split up it took me a year to get over her - I took it really hard because I realised how stupid I'd been and exactly what I lost. I recently split up with a girl I'd gone out with for 4 months who treated me exactly the way I'd treated K, and in lots of ways she really reminded me of K. Just yesterday I saw her for the first time in two years, she looked amazing and I felt so shocked to see her. I dreamt about her last night. I know she was the only girl I've ever loved and I know I'd never get her back - what I really want is to tell her how sorry I am, how amazing she is, and how much better off she is without me. How can I do this?