My friend of 10 years is ugly and obese. i'm not being nasty he is fat and has a skin condition might be a nicer way of putting it but he is a really nice guy! he was in love with this girl called abby and we all went on a holiday with a big group of friends on the last night she told me that she liked him and sent me off to tell him..... i have had a lot of girls and am quite attractive or so i'm told but this really got to me why did she want him!! and i did the most mardy selfish thing ever i just went back to her and told her he didn't feel the same. she started crying and i comforted her and we ended up sleeping together. He has done nothing nut be nice to me. i feel awful

I am happy most of the time , but today I am just in a dump. Im not happy about anything, well I am happy to be alive, and all of that basic well being stuff. I would like to do better. In everything I hope Im not becoming a perfectionist or anything like that. I am happy that I came across this sight so I can get most of this junk out of my mind. So that is at least one happy thing or is that two...well any way....I hate sadness it sucks and its making me angry! OK I can deal with anger cause by the end of the day you are so exausted that you dont feel anything and you just fall asleep....

i think i'm in love with one of my friend, i'm not suppose to love him at all as i'm married and i have baby. i feel terrible bad, hurt, and helpless. i hope this is just a crash and it will gone soon, may time pass by help me and help him. i'm sorry

I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. But all I ever think about is having s.x with other men and women, orgies, threesomes, the works. I care about him and he is steady, but I just love s.x. I love the feeling of going to a bar, meeting men, having wild crazy s.x with them and never having to deal with them again. It's new s.x, uninhibited, exciting. I'm a very s.xual person and love a chalenge. It's the thrill of getting caught, of being naughty, of pushing boundaries, letting my guard down, being wild and free and then being able to come home to my normal every day life. I love everything about s.x, touching, kissing, petting, oral s.x, masturbation, all of it. I can't tell anyone these things in real life, but I just love s.x that much. Is it wrong? Maybe... but I don't regret it in the least or feel bad about myself because of it.

I find it amazing how many of these admissions are merely expressing the hedonistic tendencies of various people. The religious use prayer, the rich use therapy, the internet-addicts use this site. I can only wonder, are people seeking some catharsis? Is it not an unsettling idea- to accept the advice of the majority, who likely have no experience in what they are advising? But who am I to criticize or judge anyone. My point, the point of ever scribing these bytes of data in a tiny strand of the great Web, is thus: Obviously people admitting things here do so because they feel they cannot do so elsewhere. Is the world so lost? America, land I am forced to call home, is in constant fear of "terrorists." Are these terrorists justified in some of their ideologies? Are we, as a race, that far gone? I ask you, who are outcast from the "norm" of society...

I thought it was a pretty simple task - let's try to get laid this weekend! It's been a few weeks and I'm going through a dry spell and available again. A few weeks without sex is a record for me. Posted a message looking for drinks and "party favors" and S.X. Friday night was bachelor no. 1. Cute and intelligent. Had a few drinks and brought him home. He couldn't get it up because he apparently drank too much earlier that evening. Thanks for the waste of time! Saturday night was no. 2. He also was very cute. Brought him back and realized he was gay. What's a girl to do? Sunday, I posted a new ad and was very blatant about what I wanted. Got hundreds of replies. After using the delete key ad nauseum (fellas, word of advice, don't send pictures of your d.ck; it doesn't look half as good as you think it does). Made plans with no. 3 to come over and he actually drove from an hour away. After a lot of smoking, I finally got matters taken care of!

i think my girlfriend is pregnant. I'm so so happy!!! I just don't know what to do now - what should she eat, what shouldnt she eat, drinking, smoking, health, exercise, fitness, everything !!!!! what do i do - who do i ask (im not going to ask my parents - cos we arent sure yet - so i dont wanna get thier hopes up!) Can anyone help - bearing in mind im in england - if your gonna advise me to go see someone in seattle - it may be a little difficult!

I need advice about my relationship Ive been with my girl 4years and have a 2year old child, I sometimes feel like I need to get out of the relationship so I can be alone and just be by myself free to do whatever I want but I love her very much and I dont want to hurt her. I have these dreams sometimes about her cheating on me but I dont know if i should ignore them or not I know shes a good woman and I have cheated on her in the past and I dont know if I can be completely faithful to her If im not completely happy with her please tell me what you think.