A few months ago i started dating this girl who i had become really close too. I knew she had been kinda slutty before in the past but she acted different around me and she promised me she had stopped doing all the stuff she had done in the past. A month into our relationship my "friends" started telling me that she was cheating on me with some guy. I took my "friends" advice and I broke up with her. A long while later I found out that my "friends" had been lying to me just because they didnt like her. Now I wanna go back out with her because I still love her, but I'm not sure if she has any feeling for me anymore.

i admit i am so lonley i go into ice cream shop to watch ladies licking ice cream, i get arroused

I admit that when I walk past some one who is bent over, exposing their bum, that all I want to do is smack it really hard. I dont discriminate, age, sex, workplace, shopping isles...where ever, when ever. I would never actually do it, but the urge sometimes is almost overwhelming. Sometimes as I am walking past, I raise my arm and pretend to smack...I wonder if one day I will actually connect?

Ok.. time for me to rant.. my day sucked.. my boyfriend decided that if I sleep in today he wont come over.. so he made me get up almost 3 hours then i normally would after he kept me on the phone all night...so i wasn't to happy about that.. I was cranky this morning so he got all defensive and is now trying to say that I'm pissed off at him or something stupid like that and that i'm just not telling him the truth.. whatever... we've been having a lot of problems lately.. a little over a week ago he suggested we take a "break' and then we talked for like 4 hours and decided not to.. but now I'm really considering telling him that I need some time away from him before I go insane... I mean.. I love Him to death.. but at the same time.. i hate him.... I dont want to lose him again... because if it happens again I dont think i'll be able to ever get back with him.. it's to hard.. but maybe a little break is what i need.. what do you guys think?

the other night, my x-boyfriend came over to my house at like 1:30 in the morning to 'hang out'. we were watching tv and he was being all touchy feely and seemed like he wanted to make out. i let him lay next to me and put his arms around me, but nothing happened. now i feel really guilty about it and i don't know if i should tell my boyfriend, who i'm completely in love with.

I am currently 16 years old, have just left school and am quite depressed. I have a tight group of friends, including quite a few girls. There is one girl who I really like, and we have fun together, but have never really dated or anything, just been friends. I am really not sure what to do, as for some reason im quite shy about asking girls out on a date, and haven't dont it before. I think im just scared of rejection, or the thought that she wouldn't even consider going out with me. Im afraid if I ask here out, and she doesn't want to and says no, that she will look at me differently in our friendship. Sigh. Any advice?

How does one stop doing something that has become second nature to them? For example, (in a metaphorical and theoretical sense) if every morning you woke up and put your slippers on, left foot first and then the right, how do you break the routine? Is it even possible to stop yourself from feeling in a certain way? If so, HOW DOES ONE DO IT???

There is this girl that I like - a lot. I've never been in this situation before because everytime I am around her I am paralyzed. She is amazing and I love everything about her and I just dont know how to tell her. It's been more than a few months of harbouring this crush and I know I need to tell her, but I am afraid of losing her as my friend if it doesnt work. What's more...I just dont know what to say to her. Anyone have any suggestions?