My b-friend of 3 1/2 years just left me. This came as such a complete and total shock to me. I thought that things were fine between us. We were really getting along. We were planning on getting married and having a baby. His reasoning was that he was no longer romantically attracted to me. (never bothered him the night before, or earlier that morning) He said that there was not anyone else and that we could still be friends. The problem is, i think that there is someone else.....a man that he works with. They are always together. At work, at home. The call each other every morning and every night. I asked him, but he just keeps snapping at me. What do I do. I miss him and his kids so much. Should i keep on trying to get him back, should i continue pressuring him bout this man, or should i just let him go? I'm lost without him.

I am in love with two guys. I don't know what to do. I really love them both. I think they are both really amazing but don't want them to know that i fancy both of them as they are best mates. Everyone knows I fancy the one but they don't know hwo I feel about the other one. I feel guilty because I know that one of my mates fancies the guy who doesn't know I fancy him and when she asks me to find outif he likes her I don't know what to say because if he like her it obviously means he doesn't like me. I feel so bad about the whole think. I have found myself hurting people because of it and pushing people away. My friends who know about both of them just say choose the one you like best but thats the problem I love them both and can't choose between them. I also get extremely jealous when either of them speaks to any other girl. I think I am being stupid and need to just make a decision but how do you choose between the two most amazing guys ever?

I have a crush on my best friend, K.... This is a huge problem for many reasons. 1.) She's not gay 2.) She's my best friend and 3.) I keep having sexual fantasies about her. I don't know what to do. I hate being close friends with her and having feelings for her at the same time. If anyone has some advice, please help me.

ok peeps heres the gist of my problem - i think i might be a lesbian. Ever since i was little i always pushed away blokes that liked me, and for a while now i have been thinking about my teacher in a ...sexual manner. The thing is though i know i'm only 18, and that it could be my hormones or something fucking me up. But i really like my teacher. she's young, pretty, and has such a sexy voice its amazing.

My mom is an insane alcoholic and will not take her meds. For some reason, I get turned on by horses. When I mean turned on, I mean like having s.x with one.

I admit I'm an IRC addict. I havn't anything juicier, I swear.

I'm secretly in love with this guy..who wouldn't give me the time of day, if he knew the real me. When he calls, I find myself running to the phone(almost breaking my neck in the process...lol) I lied to him in the past...and now he doesn't trust me. I try to pretend...and say that I don't care for him....but it shows. I think he knows it and he plays on it. Sometimes, I wish I had the strength to walk away, but secretly...I wish that he felt the same. I know that I'm wasting my time. My heart aches for you...but you can't hear it, I guess you're to busy to listen.

i smoke weed everyday 1 or 2 joints a day and a glass of wine - helps me relax am i addicted? [am i a dick ted? no ted im not] well i dont think i am - i dont want to stop smoking it - but i think i could