Should I tell my family that I am gay or should I keep it a secret. Also I Met a man on this site but it seems that he is just stringing me along any suggestions or comments would be really apreceiated, Other than my spelling.

Hey, well its been over a month now sicne i saw my g/f last cause of the distance but i am seeing her this saturday and we are goign to a movie, its really like my first real date coz the last movie we went to was as friends and this is my first g/f. could someone please give some advice on what to do

We had an extra lesson biology and chemistry today. It was a long 2 hours of concentration, but my head was somewhere else today.I kept my eyes set on JB,the boy in front of my desk.I kept my eyes fixed on his long flowing blonde hair.I called him and he turned round, with his usual mouth twitched to 1 side of his face.I just asked him a question I already knew the answer to,just so I could see his eyes.Innocent yet cold eyes.JB replied in his usual soft voice."1.074", he said. He smiled without looking at me,and turned round.It was then that I realised what I felt.It wasn't love for his innocent eyes, but hatred for their coldness. I dread the sight of his eyes.Eyes everywhere.People were looking at me. "Faggot!". I h8 JB,I h8 myself.I'm not gay but I just stared at his frozen eyes and they brought me back my bizarre memories of a distant past person from when I was 9.A paranoia attack caught me in class.I can't see any eyes anymore.Eye contact is too painful cos it hurts a lot..

i was f...ing a girl but in my mind i was having her mum

I have recently found that my friend of over 10 years is bi and her and her husband love to get freaky with other people. Now the thing is that they have invited me to join them, but the thing is i have a bf of 4 years. I would really love to join them but it is not worth it to mess things up with *George* i will call him. however they totaly understand and don't push the matter at all but back in my head is the image.

Hi, I am married for 11 years, and have two great kids. My wife just does not get me, she is not interested in my emotions, suffers from depression and does not want to even try to understand me. I had an affair a year ago with a wonderful women. For the first time I felt really loved. I also discovered how much I can love, and how in love I can be. Unfortunatly she lives far away (Calgary) and it had to end. I am thinking about finding a soul mate again in Toronto, but staying with my wife for the sake of the kids.

i've been with my girlfriend for just over 4 months now but the last month has been hard and we hardly talk at all. whenever we sit together or anything like that nothing is said. it seems akward, we nearly broke up over ther phone last night but when i suggested it i heard her cry. i didnt want to call it off and the fact that she was crying a bit told me she didnt want to either. also she told me that she still wanted to be with me. but if we dont talk it seems pointless to continue. shes so beutiful and great. before we were going out we were good friends and flirted like mad. hell she cheated on her bf a while ago with me. but now that we've gone out is seems the magic is just gone. we havent had sex for a while but then again we havent really had the oppertunity either so maybe thats irrelavent. i just dont know what to do?i dont really have anyone to talk about this to other than my gf. anyway i'll end it now. please help

hey, i am in 10th grade at s..... high and i have recently done some bad things well like 1 month ago but i have been sober for a while and now my mom thinks i am back on drugs and my dad hits me when ever he gets mad and this just makes it worst me being on drugs and everything so hopefully some one can tell me if i deserve this abuse from him just cause of my addictions. sincerly, caleb