I work with this guy at an internet shop in Australia, he keeps looking at my ass when i bend over and he winks at me, I think i like the guy i am 36 and have no life except for my nerdy freinds who are all gay i thinki will go out with the guy if he asks what should i do

I started being sexually active too soon. I was 18, but I was sexually abused as a teen and I gave in to pressure from my first boyfriend. I've never had intercourse, but that doesn't really matter, sex is sex. Now I am with the love of my life (2nd sex partner) and for the first few months, sex with him was wonderful and always desirable, but lately it has been triggering flashbacks of the abuse. I haven't had sex with my boyfriend in a month. He is understanding of what I am going through, but I feel bad because he is very attractive to me and I want him to feel that he is. Even my therapist thinks I should hold off on sex for right now, until I start feeling better and stronger. I even think me and my current boyfriend got into sex too soon, and I would feel more comfortable if I didn't have to deal with sex right now. It makes me angry at my father that I can't have sex with my boyfriend without re-experiencing the awful things he did. I feel so helpless. Advice anyone?

someone sent an e-mail to me the other day asking if after i've had my operations would i tell any men i meet that i used to be a man. I said i would if they were gonna be my boyfriend but i'm not sure if i should for one night stands because as i can pass for a girl the blokes won't know any better and won't be bothered by it will they?

I told my boyfriend and his bestfriend That I was attracted to him, my boyfriend appriciated my honesty .his friend kept making moves on me, we maked out every time my boyfriend fell asleep. I liked that, till the day he and me got in a fight. A week later I saw him again but didn't want to talk to him, he felt bad of what he had done and followed me around, talked to me the whole time, till I had enough and told him to back off. I walked to another room, he came after me and said how fu.ked up I am and that I am a liar. I told him to leave me alone, I don't need to listen to this, I was about to walk out when he grabed my wrist and said no I'm the liar, maybeI like you more than a friend. Now I'm cofused, I asked him about that and he said it means what it means, when I go in detail if he meant more than as fu.kbuddies or friends w/ benefts he sais he respects me more than that. As girlfirend - no answer. A few times after he said he loves me- as a person. And he does alot for me. HELP

1st time on e-admit. i am married and have a 3 year old. But i keep wanting to find someone to be with. don't know why. i have done more than just try, i've even showed a few girls my package and 2 seemed to like it, but I just left. (we were driving down the road when i did this - in seperate cars) They followed me around, but i couldn't put myself to stoping and talking with them.

ive been with my finacee for nearly 3 years, i do love her but we dont have sex anymore. Problem is im bored of the same old sex. Ive cheated several times as the thought of sex with strangers or new people really gets me going. The thought of doing it with my fiancee in our bed at bedtime AGAIN, really doesnt. I have cheating on her a few times but i cant help thinking about sex with people i see in the street or girls who i know but havnt been with yet.........i also love chatting to girls on the internet or swapping sexy emails with complete strangers. im having text sex with a female work collegue and the stuff she says is amazing, im dying to have sex with her and i know one day it will happen, but she works on the other side of london so i dont get to see her often. any suggestions or messages will be most welcome.

i'm a grad student, and have been paid by my prof for the last 1 year to work on some research project. I feel guilty about not doing it, but, i just cannot get myself to do something that i am not really passionate about. I cannot afford to tell him the truth, because, i really cannot afford grad school without the assistantship. Somehow, i have kept him fooled that i was working, but, its only a matter of time before he find out the truth. I'd hate to sully my professor's reputation, cause his student didnt finish the work - because he's been so good to me. I dont want to let him, and my family down - everyone thinks i am smart - but, i am just another average joe - i just cannot let everyone know this and hurt them. The more i think of it, suicide is the only way out - but, it will hurt the one person who means everything to me. I do not want to let everyone down.

My friends are really doing my head in and keep having a go at me for no reason....I really want to be able to talk to them about things but they are always putting me down and I feel like they think I am stupid....Every idea I have about anything is just seen as stupid to them and they always have better ideas. I have tried talking to them about it but they just think i get angry with them because I am jealous of them, this is not true but everyone keeps saying it is and it is making me so depressed. I have no idea what to do? I can't talk to my other mates about it cause they all know her and I dont want it to get back to her. What shall i do?