I really like this girl, and she has the hots for me, too, and we've fooled around in the past, but here's the catch-- she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend found out about us, they fought, then made up, but she still really has a thing for me. She has no intention of breaking up with this guy, and she's made that clear. So here's the question: should I continue to fool around a little bit with her, and if so, what should be my limits?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. She is an amazing girl and we have lots of fun together. I was just looking for advice on how to keep the relationship exciting and interesting!

I am so emotionally and sexually frustrated! My wife acts like she cares but doesn’t do anything about it. I've tried being sensitive and caring but she is having personal problems that are keeping her from feeling sexually attractive, even though I tell her she is beautiful, and that I love her. I can’t even sleep. I don’t want to cheat on her. I do love her!

I've been seeing someone for about five years now and we are currently engaged. She seems to have lost her sex drive some time ago (eight months ago). She admits that she has no longings and was concerned about it. I told her not to worry, that she was just going through a phase. She keeps telling me that she is going to consult a physician. She hasn't yet. Her libido is nil; mine is supercharged. Although she gives me those big doe eyes and says she's sorry, she just doesn't see this as any sort of priority. I'm not "Prince Charming" by any means, but I am attractive enough to find some sexual action if I try. We've always joked about "getting some" on the side. I know that she has earlier on in our relationship, but I never took advantage of that. Maybe it's time to start looking until my better half is back to normal.

i have been dating this girl for almost 2 yrs now. She was at a party last month, got drunk, and ended up making out with another guy. We were planning to get married.. should I have some concern?

I fooled around with this girl for about a month, never intending on having a relationship develop. Now, shes hooked on me and won't stop calling and talking to me. I felt bad so I just tried to ignore her, but, that didn't work out for me either. I'm running out of options here. Only problem is I'm not the type of person to just tell somebody to leave me alone when i know i mean a lot to them.

Alright well here goes.. I have a pretty good friend and he's been going out with this girl for a few years and recently they broke up. Me and this girl werent really that good of friends but a couple weeks later she asked me out on a date. I'm not sure what i'm supposed to do..

I dated someone for over a year, and I was head-over-heals in love with her (as she was with me). Things were kind of rocky (we're kind of opposites), but we had this amazing connection (neither of us had felt this before). We broke up last September and she dated someone else for 4-5 months (they're broken up now), which became fairly serious, very quickly (although everyone said it was a rebound). Lately she's been responding to alot of my office mailing list postings (did I mention we work together? :P), and she's making it incredibly obvious that she's trying to open the lines of communication between us again. If I talk with her, my feelings could come rushing back so fast (like I said, her and I had an amazing connection). I know if I talk to her and she doesn't feel the same way, I'll have a relapse and have to get over her all over again. Not what I want. Love... it' such a cruel game! hehe