In a drunken night out partying I kissed my best friends wife, I'm not sure how it happened or why it happened but I feel like a complete jerk. My friend found out right away and kicked my ass. As I left, my drunk girlfriend wouldn't give me the keys to my car, resulting in my friend getting a few more punches in and messing up my car. I know I deserved all of it but how do I recover from this? I don't want to lose my friendship with both my friend and his wife. Should I wait a while and let him cool down before I apologize or try to apologize right away?

I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. My best friend since grade school has always had a thing for me. She is the coolest girl in the world, but I never wanted to date her because messing up what we have would hurt both of us too much. Just this past week though, i began to look at her differently. I found that she is much more appealing after not seeing her for a 6 months while she was away at college. She would date me if I asked her to, but is this the right idea at this time? I mean we both go back to school in less than 4 months, and one of us fell hard, things might get ugly fast.

After receiving my degree in a 4 year school, I decided to move on and get my masters degree. When I finally finished my masters degree in law, the university kicked me out and said "Get a job you freaking leach on society!" I was really startled by this because I thought it was proper to use scholarships for beer and crack related habits. I still get good grades but my peers say that I should not be a lawyer and a crackhead. I thought personally the combination would help me think in unordinary ways and find loopholes in the law as I did "the system" for the past 8 to 29 years. Man I miss high school. I wish I could still play basketball during math class. Oh yeah, back to my main point.....Please help in my time of crisis. Crack attacks the back, which inturn, makes me smack crack.

This is my first time trying this. I just don't know where else to let some stuff out. No one really listens to me. To them my life is almost perfect, when it's anything but. But anyway, i never really was an emotional person, i still am not too emotional now days either. But a few months ago i started drinking a lot. I remained a virgin until the whiskey got to me one night. I swore i'd never let that happen again, i got a lot goin for me to mess it up by getting preg or something. I was sober for 4 months, until this past saturday. I had gotten drunk with my cousin and a friend i known all my life. But i had too much to drink and quickly blanked out. And wasn't aware of what was happening, the next morning i had to wake for a basketball tournament. I woke with the horrible feeling knowing i did something. But long story short i had sex for the 2nd time in my life with p... This is something never expected from some one like me! And worst of all MY MOTHER was up all night listening to us!

I've been going out with this girl for about a year. She moved about a year ago to a different state. We have been doing a long distance relationship and I was supposed to move up there this month to be with her. She broke up with me a few days ago and said she was afraid that if we didn't make it when I moved up there then I would be stuck. I know that we will make it. Should I try and get her back?

When I met my exboyfriend, him and my best friend also became friends. After we broke up, my best friend and my ex continued to stay good friends, and talk very often and spend time together. I know nothing is going to happen, but it bothers me to no end. I am angry with my best friend and think that she should not spend so much time with him.

*WARNING: POTENTIAL OFFENSIVENESS AHEAD* My e-admit: I don't get americans! What is with them and their gun-toting, Mcdonalds loving, let's shoot em down and ask questions later coz you know its just about the oil demeanor?! And also, what is with their spelling!? like why can't they use "u"?! As in FLAVOUR, COLOUR, BEHAVIOUR etc... does the letter "u" NOT EXIST WITH THEM!? And what about californians!? what kind of STATE of 30+ MILLION PEOPLE would choose to have the *expletive* TERMINATOR as governer!? Oh america... If this is the land of the free and home of the brave (and all that other rot)... I am scared... very scared... Yes this is meant to be a little funny... so no telling me I'm a jerkwad ok!? NO i don't need help... so no wacky californians spouting stupid pop psychology to me ok!?

I'm crushing badly on a girl right now for a few months now. The only problem is.. I don't know her at all. And, she doesn't know who I am either. But we've seen each other a few times. She works at this restaurant that my friends and I usually go to. Sometimes I would see her, and whenever I do... I just want to talk to her, maybe ask her for her number or give her my number and see if she would call me sometimes. The only thing stopping me is.. I'm shy and afraid I'll make a fool out of myself. That or I might creep her out since we don't know each other.. any suggestions?