Dated a girl for 6 months. I broke up with her 2 months before she left for England for foreign exchange for 1 year. She's coming back on June 18th. All my friends really really liked her, as did I, but I never told her that I loved her in 6 months because I felt i did not. I am usually quick to know if I am in love or not... And I wasn't with her (quick, like a month or so). Should I also mention that she had a strong christian background and I took her virginity? Yeah. After we broke up she wrote me via email telling me that she had fallen for me, and she had never been in love before. I'm sure that is gone now, because I really hurt her bad. I think she might have changed enough in 1 year for me to *possibly* love her this time around, I don't know, I haven't talked to her in 6 months. She's coming back, yeah. Do I try to save my own heart and hers and just not pursue this relationship? She really is a quality girl and im not lookin to get laid, but married.

Last week I was abducted by aliens... hey do these admissions actually have to be true?

One might say that every male is a Nympho. Well, actually Nymphomania is an uncontrollable excessive sexual desire in "women," constituting a true disease. But what of this in men? I feel that my sexual urges place me in risky situations all too often. With the fear of STD's and the fact that I am wholeheartidly in love with 1-woman, I need some help. I haven't seemed to be able to control myself despite my love. Does such help (for men) exist?

I went to a club, and started dancing with this really nice guy, and ended up kissing him. I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for almost a year.

A few years ago I emailed a woman to ask if she could bring a musician to my school as she was a booking agent. We became penpals and it turns out she's wealthy and generous and loves to treat friends to trips. She flew me to New York, paid for my plane, hotel, show tickets and most meals. She constantly reassured me she gets great joy out of doing things like this, especially for me as I have helped her through a lot of issues just by listening to her problems and offering advice/comfort. Recently, she has gotten kind of emotionally attached, constantly wanting my opinion/advice for everything, getting mad when we go more than a day without communicating either online or on the phone. I am 20 and she is in her 50s. Last time she got only one hotel room (it was a suite, but still shared bathroom). I'm not scared she wants something romantically, but I am starting to get a little uncomfortable with our level of friendship. I know if I cut her off completely she'd never recover.

There's a certain girl that I really like, everyhting about her is great, except for one thing. We are both underage and she drinks. She doesn't do it all the time, but when she does do it, she gets smashed. Hammered. Any other term you can think of to mean GONE. She knows that I love everything about her except for that, and we talk about it all the time. She apologizes and tells me she doesn't do it very often, but she never really says anything leaning towards either "I don't care what you say, I'm still doing it" or "I don't want you to hate me, I'll stop." I don't know what to do, and I don't know if I should try and get over her. She's really great and I just don't know.

There's this boy. His ex-girlfriend was my best friend. He and I recently started to hang out more and he even asked me on a date. I really like this guy, but my best friend and he hate each other. I honestly don't know what to do...

I've been going out with my girlfriend since Christmas time. She's been my best friend for several years. We dated previously as well. During our previous relationship we had a normal sexual relationship. However this time around she told me that she wants to wait till marriage to do anything. I had put $ down on a ring 2 months ago and have since lost my job. I still haven't been able to find a new one yet. She's still insistant about the " none till marriage " thing. Problem was in january we had sex. and 2 weeks ago she told me that if I went and got something for her at Fredricks of Hollywood. Ya never know what would happen. And of course.. nothing, and lately there's no kissing me except a peck on the lips/ cheek. I love this girl truely, but get the feeling lately that I'm being jerked around. She and I have been very sexual people since we've known each other. But there's just a fizzle lately, and not because I haven't tried romancing her or anything. Feel free 2 comment