I've been in a mental hospital twice in my life. When I was 16 I started having nightmares & flashbacks from my childhood. I started remembering that my father molested me. I always felt weird around him & looking back on it I should have known. He was arrested for child porn once when I was 14. One time one of my friends accused him of touching her when we were little but I was just in denial the whole time. In the hospital they said I had blocked it all out. I felt horrible for being there, like I was crazy. I was there for a week & then I started missing my boyfriend so I got out. The second time was much worse. I trashed this room in my boyfriends house. I just started throwing all sorts of shit around, I was delusional and completely out of it. I'm not even sure how long I was in the mental hospital that time. i went to therapy and I was on meds for a while. I havent had any problems in 5 years. I worry sometimes that it could happen again but I think I've worked through it.

Ok so the hottest girl I have ever seen has asked me to sleep with her, so I did. She says it's just for the sex, but she treats me like a boyfriend. It wouldn't be so bad if she did just sleep with me and leave, but she stays round kissing and cuddling, it's really confusing the hell out of me. She tells me she's not out for a relationship at all, just wants some dirty, hard sex, which im more than willing to provide. I know im falling for her yet im sure she doesn't feel the same. If I tell her we can't sleep together i'll lose her, yet if I let this carry on I know eventually she'll get bored and move on. What on earth should I do?!

I used my grandads phone to call someone and now they know it's me and the phone bill is over £150. I don't know what to do and things are worser than what they seem.

There was this really HOT girl that went to my high school that I really liked, but I never got around to talking to her. I used to plan my days so that I made sure that I passed her in the halls each day. She was also a lifeguard at my pool, and I used to go there all the time and just watch her. I was obsessed with her, and she didn't even know who I was! I looked up her address in the school directory, and I used to drive by her house and I would just sit there, trying to work up the courage to go knock on the door and talk to her. But I never got around to it.

Why is everybody so morally correct here? it's not like anybody is gonna know it's you that says what you say. Answer honestly in the polls, say what you think, not what you think you should think.

I m married male of age 42. I m involved with an married woman. many times we fantasies of 3 some which we almost ended up in real but last moment we dropped the idea. now whenever we are having sex we fantasies of 3 someome me and another male a close friend and she. now this makes me at times wonder if she really wanted looking forward to it in real. this really makes me get afraid incase she is looking forward to it in real. If she is really looking forward to it. i would go forward to it to make her dreams true and make her happy. i m all confused and dont know what to do. if anyone can advise me. wether to go ahead or just keep on with the fantasy while we are having sex. need your advice. thanks.

I've been in a relationship for 4 years. She goes to a university 2000 miles away and I only see her during the summer. We are planning on getting married in July. She called me recently crying...telling me she kissed some guy. I was terribly hurt by what she had done and I called my friend over to comfort me. My friend happens to be a girl and she brought along another girl. One thing led to another and the three of us ended up in bed together. My mind wasn't functioning and I didn't even know it was happening until it was over. I was upset at my girl because of something she did and then I go and do something much worse. I cried myself to sleep that night worrying about what would happen. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid to tell her. Not once in our relationship have I ever thought about cheating. It has never entered my mind. I've broken off my friendship with the two girls. They obviously don't respect my relationship.

I have been dating the same girl for the past two years & we have always got along great. However, recently we have both been pretty busy & don't seem to see each other quite as much. This would generally not be a problem although last week I met, perhaps one of the most beautiful girls I have seen in a while. The thought of cheating has never crossed my mind in the past; but I had a great conection with this new girl. She asked me to meet her for a few drinks, which I felt slighly guilty about but did. I found that we shared many of the same interests & I sensed an incredible amount of sexual tension. I know If we find ourselves alone together something will definetly happen. Since we went out she has been sending me the sweetest emails throughout the day. I hate sounding shallow, but in the past I have only dated girls I consider to be beautiful & to say this girl is striking is an understatement. Although I feel very guilty about it I can't shake the thought of this girl.