I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He and I live together and he moved in almost immediately after we started dating. I really love him and we get along fine. But, he has a lot of girls that he talks to on the internet. I used to work two jobs and he would sit at home and talk to these girls on the net. Then, I came home early one day and he wrote something down and ran away with it. It turned out to be a girl's email address. I saw his buddy list and she was under the "personals" list. He lets me use his cell phone and sometimes I check his call history, and she is in there. She called one night and I answered, but he told me he wasn't mad about that. When I asked him who she was, he said that she was just a friend that he has had for a while but she just returned from Europe. I don't know what to think about it because it seems to me that he is sneaking around when he makes his phone calls. Like when I get in the shower or I fall asleep early.

Been with my first girlfriend and still is for the last 7 years. A long distance relationship. Crazy you may say but we've been managing it... well until last year when she started seeing someone else. Naturally I was devastated. Eventually after a few weeks when I was prepared to let it go she came back to me. Been trying to live life as if nothing has happened and in fact planning to move in together soon. But there's always this scar in me I can't heal. Started seeing a girl I like recently, nothing has happened as I can't bear to hurt anybody.

Admitting to my problems on this site really took a weight of my shoulders, and all the e-mails of support were fantastic. However, after 4 days of being clean my willpower deserted me last night. I got wasted and slept with a whore, who i think had at least one STD.

All my life, I've been through rough relationships. About a year ago i started going out with the girl of my dreams. She's what i've been looking for all my life. I love her to death and she loves me. The problem? Well there's this HOT girl at school who made a pass at me. She is married wit a kid. We ended up sleeping together. We have fooled around a bit, but i don't wanna sleep with her again. I want to end it but she's always hitting on me when we are alone. We have all the same classes. What to do? How do i end it with her? Do i tell my gf?

I've been living with my girlfriend for a year now. At the begining our sex life was great, she was into lot of stuff.However, as the time passed, she became uniterested and even when we get it on, she seems like she just wants to "do it" and get it over with.No romance,forplays etc. Lately I've been telling her to get more adventurous and she said we should, but when I ask her about sex in public places or to send me naked pics of herself when she is away, she does not apear too enthusiastic.At the beginning we even talked about 3somes,but now she doesn't even wanna hear about it! I know those kind of things fade with time, but I still wanna try new things and actually look forward to sex, I mean I am only 23 (she's 25). Should I dump her if that doesn't change. I love her and don't wanna cheat on her, but I need some flavour in my sex life. What's my next move? Thanx

I am cheating with my best friends ex, who he still is in love with. He does not know about it, but she wants to tell him to get rid of him, but in turn he will get rid of me, he is a good guy but would never consider me a friend ever again if he knew... She went on to tell me that if i admit it to him that she will go out with me... I'm stuck in this situation and dont know what to do. I feel like the worse person on the earth... So it turns out, i can either get rid of both of them, or just have her and not my friend, because either way he will reject me as a friend for good...

I'm in my final year of secondary school and there's this girl 3 years lower then me who I have really liked for a while. I'm 17 and she's about 14, to add to the situation I'm great friends with her brother. I also have a girlfriend but I don't see it lasting long and this girl is on my mind all the time. I could covertly try to get closer to her through her brother and while it's totally underhanded I cant help think about it.

I feel very confused and slightly ashamed. I have tried to seek professional advice, but no one seems to have an answer to my reoccurring problem/fascination. I have worked for many years in a badger sanctuary, nursing back to life injured badgers, but in the last couple of years I have taken, as some may call it, an unhealthy obsession for them. All I can think about 24/7 recently is badgers, which finally has caused the split of my marriage, with my wife walking out calling me a 'badger freak!'. The last straw came when I was unable to sustain an erection with my wife during sex, because all I could be think about was badgers. I feel so alone, at the moment, just me and my badgers. Is there anyone else out there who has a inclination to large furry rodents?