My wife and I have decided to have sex with another woman or man.

I'm still obsessed and in love with Darlene, whom I met at university in 1985. We lost touch about 1989. Met her again at a wedding in 96. Haven't seen her since. I heard that she and her husband moved to the US. I think about her all the time, and my girfriend, who is about to have our baby, has no idea.

My wife of a little over a year seperated for four months over a stupid argument. While we were seperated, I slept with several women. She didn''t as she was huge pregnant. Now that we are back together, she said, "If you had slept with anyone else while we were apart, I could never have come back to you"...

ever since i first had sex with a woman i have wondered what it would be like to be one i love the shape of their bodies. i went to a local shop called transform near where i live and bought all the gear which really does make you look like a woman(especially if you aren''t very well built like myself)i have loads of womens clothes now especially the sexy underwear which i wear around the flat whenever i can.i confessed all of this to a friend one night after a lot of drink and he has said if i want to he will come round and i can dress up in the clothes i would wear if i was a woman and wanted to get him into bed and then he said we could have sex and he would do everything he would normally do to a woman and i could do everything a woman would do to a man i don''t know what to do i''ve never even kissed a man before let alone have sex with one but it would be fulfilling my fantasy what should i do?HELP ME!

I have been with my man now for almost 4 years. I love him and he loves me. I think I fianaly got myselft a good one. He has a good job, extra money (not a lot) his family likes me and i like them. We have been together through everything. I got with him when he had hit rock bottom. we were both poor, (on welfare) and now everything has gotten better, we have money, between the two of us we have 5 kids (me 2 him 3) both from prefious relationships. I find him very physicaly attractive and he feels the same about me. The problem i am having is that even though I love him dearly, I am finding that my eye is wondering (looking at other men.) I love him and I would never cheat on him. This is only my second serious relationship and my longest. is this normal?

well, my middle of the three younger brothers is showing up this afternoon. For the last 5 years, we havn''t talked. I would love to talk to him, see what the hell went wrong, and ask him when he''s going to grow up!! But, my dad is away tending to family in the next province, and normally he "keeps the peace" My mother, well....I think she likes it this way. Easter weekend, this happened, I called to wish my parents a "Happy Easter"; what did my mom do?, but ask me very abruptly, "How can I help you?" As if I was a student in the college univercity that she is the Dean of!!!!!!! I know I''m not a mummy''s girl, and we butt heads anyhow, but still it would be nice to go home on special occasions. My son, who is 8, has trouble understanding the family politics, I don''t want him to think that this behavior is normal. I would love nothing better than to "have a meeting" with my 2 brothers and mother, so I can understand why I am shut out of the family, when the "brothers"arrive. ????

In my town I''m the knowledge guy. I know all the gossip and everything. My girlfriend has a friend who, because of something stupid, cut herself up pretty bad. Trust me, this is just a retarded reason why to. But anyway, should I try to have her committed before she kills herself? or should I just let it be?

Another time, My wife and I had some friends over we had known for a long time. We got drunk, etc...... Talk came around to sex. I told how we had fantasized about swapping. They agreed it was a turn on but "weird". Us husbands talked the wives into just going into the bathroom and putting on something sexy for a new little show. They came out in teddies and danced around us. We all agreed on soft games. Basically, each wife blew their own husband, in front of each other,and then we had sex with our own spouse on the same bed. Short of swapping, but fun as hell all the same!!! We plan on getting togther again sometime.