me and my girlfriend have been together three years & have had a baby a few months ago, but about a year ago i got v.drunk with her best mate (who was asking me on how to finish with her boyfriend) & told her i had feelings for her and we got v.intimate but never went all the way, this lasted about a week then she went out with someone at college she had known for a while (by the way he a complete idiot), after a week of being with him got pregnant, she said that she didn''t want too get into serious relationship after the last boyfriend, but they have been together since, she has had her baby and still with him. every time i see her or am with her i feel the love & elation i felt for her a year ago! i''m excited at the thought of seeing her and heartbroken when she leaves. i''m haunted by the love she should never have given me!

I''m trying really hard to be nice to my roomates....but I just don''t think I can do it. I like M. quite well, but whenever J. comes in, it''s like I''m not there and it irritates me..GRARGH..And J. seems very stuck-up, but I could be completley wrong...Anywhozle..I also hate my apartment complex very much...I cannot wait to get back to the other one next semester!

Ive had noting but trouble in my life. My girlfriend killed herself and my parents are both in jail. I live on my own and am having trouble sleeping. I feel nausious everyday and every doctor has told me that medication would complicate things too much.(since i would have to take many). My current girlfriend is in the hospital for herione overdosing and I really dont know what to do anymore.

For quite a while now, I''ve been feeling an urge to find a female who will consent to let me rape her... Like she''ll say ok... And i will at some later date, when she''s not expecting it, rape her... I''m quite timid about just asking the person i''m with to go along with that... I''m not at all a person who would let this want get the better of me and really rape someone... I just want to be able to feel that power, but still be on good terms as far as the law goes... Does any one have any ideas or comments about that?...

I’ve been very confused; my wife of 17 years is not fulfilling my needs or desires. I have tried to discuss this with her. She is the type of person who wont try things(sexual) on her own … so if I suggest anything different she says she doesn’t want to, says it makes her feel pressured, (as if she would anyhow). She has also been getting fatter than I think she should I don’t dare say anything for fear it will have the reverse affect. She is 5’8” and well over 225lbs. I have this friend that has recently made me an offer. She wants to pay for a rendezvous for us I have known this woman for over a year & we have become good friends. I feel a commitment to my wife & kids; however my physical & emotional needs are not being met at home. To this point I have not been with another woman in over 20 years. I am attracted to this other woman but also feel that if I go away with her for a weekend that my relationship with my wife, will be changed for the rest of my life.

I''m a member of the clergy, but i can''t stop doing drink and drugs or watching hardcore porn.

i have been going out with my girlfreind for 2 yrs, she has plans for us to get married and have a family. the relationship is fairly good and i do love her. however, i do not think i am in love with her. i would tell her this and break up, except that i know for a fact theres a (very) high probability she will attempt suicide. I know that theoretically i wouldnt be responsible, but in my mind if I knew it was going to happen as a result of something I did then rightly or wrongly the resposiblity is still there. So it seems i have a choice between staying in a reasonably good but not truly emotionally satisfying relationship for the rest of my life or causing a suicide in order to chase what i really want.

My house mate has been lying to everyone about what he does, even his girlfriend. He says that he is in his last year of university, when in fact I believe he''s working as a charity worker. You probably ask what the big deal is. Well his girlfriend graduated last year and wanted to move bourmouth to do her masters degree. My housemate has persurded her to stay in manchester and wait for him to finish his degree that he''s not doing, so shes wasted a year for nothing. The point is she is always being lied to and all I can do is watch. He always tells lies to everyone. What should I do?