I am 25 and have been with my girlfriend for two years now. Ever since I was about 8 years old I have been dressing as a girl. I have always thought that I should have been born as a girl and when I am dressed up I have fantasies about guys AND girls so I suppose I am bisexual. I will always continue to dress up as a girl because that''s when I feel my most comfortable.

I am married 1 year at the end of May. I have 2 kids and have been with my husband for 8 years total. I never thought I would be a person to cheat. I have been feeling very unappreciated at home. I was going to school, working, taking care of my family. My husband lost his job and had no interest in ANYTHING!!! I started working closer with my boss. We started hanging out and having breakfast. Next thing you know we go to a bar one day. We start kissing. From that point on we would try to hide our feelings. He started dating someone else here at work. One of her friends saw us kissing at another bar one night. A few weeks ago we were making out in his car and he went down on me. I was in heaven. My husband hardly ever does that to me. I''m sexually repressed and need to let it out. Now I''m feeling bad for him, her, my family, my husband, and word is going around work that we are hittin'' it. It''s time for a change. I start marriage counseling in the morning. Pray 4 me!

I have two men in my life that i could see myself marrying. I am so confused. They both treat me like a princess and want what I want out of life. I honestly love them both. I have no idea how to choose....

I have been married for 9 years and have children (unhappily for 7). Four years ago I met the love of my life and I can''t imagine being with anyone else. I left her to try to keep the family together and swallowed my own happiness but I just don''t feel the same anymore. I even forgot my wife''s birthday! I don''t know what to do. I feel so low down but I feel the marriage is done for. I am perplexed with my life at this point.

Someone asked my real age, said the age on here at 33 can not mean I was SF well here do the maths ... / Joined Army Cadets @ 16 (1984) / transferred to Reg''s @ 18 / did 2 years in Infantry unit,(You have to do a Min 2 years in a unit before applying for SAS) / applied for SAS, failed once waited 6 months to try selection again / Pass SAS selection and did my 4 year term, left in 1992..(did NOT goto Iraq in 1991, Not getting shot at/killed to help the USA steal Oil) / Like I said in my first posting I have had my NAME and BIRTH(DoB) certificate changed, I only told my wife 7 days ago now.. That is why I placed the first post.. Learn to read. So what do you think my real age is..here I will help you born 1968..

A good number of years ago me and a friend smashed up an old lady''s garden shed type thing. We totally destroyed it and then burnt it out. She had it all rebuilt and we did it again. So much fun. Not long later she died. I don''t feel remotely bad about this and would do it again given the opertunity. Hmm, I''m just smiling thinking about it now.

I have difficulty considering anyone else''s feelings but my own. I walk all over my family members without thinking about their needs or wants. Even though they have never said so to my face, I expect that one day I will turn and look for them and none of them will be there.

Before I met my husband, I was in love with this other guys that I dated on and off for years. When he broke up with me thats when I met my husband. Then asked to get back together 2 days after my husband and I started dating. This other guy and Ihave remaind great friends, but havn''t talked recently since i moved away from home when I got married. I love my husband very much and couldn''t be more happier, but sometimes I still think about this other guy and what could have been.