I think i don't love my husband any more. I love somebody else, who loves me, too. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to tell this to my husband. I depend on him, he also needs me. Somebody else is also suffering. So, i'm making three of us unhappy. I'm unfair to both of them. I feel bad. I can't see the way out. Can you help me with your advice?

When I was 10 years old or so I had a very special girl friend - her name was Louisa. One day we were playing in our garden at my house and children being children, we looked for - and found - my elder brother's BB gun. After checking this thing out, we started to play with it. As things would happen, the gun went off and the BB hit Louisa deeply in the upper arm. I was terrified that my parents would find out about this as i would then be in for a major hiding, so i persuaded Louisa that she should keep the story to herself for just four days -after that she could then tell her parents all about it. Which is what happened. But lucky for me, because four days after the accident my parents and i had left the country and were on our way to England never to return to Chile. Some 20 years or so were to go by before Louisa and I were to meet again - she showed me the scar from where the BB had been removed so many years before - apparently it had turned septic and she had been a great deal of pain, but she kept her word and didnt tell her parents about what had happened until she knew that i was out of the country. I can honestly say that the day I left Chile, I never gave this episode a second thought - in fact I had totally erased it from my memory - it was only when i met Louisa again after all those years that this whole thing came back to me. I sometimes think what a low life cowardly scum-bag i must have been in my early youth - i do hope that I have improved somewhat since then and have succeeded in getting a backbone as well...

I am a teacher abroad and i am not really qualified (fresh out of high school). well some of my students are about my age or a little bit younger. To cut it short I have been dating some students and more than dating some, in a socierty which frowns upon boys and girls holding hands under 20 i shit you not. So i wonder am i bad guy?

12 years ago my girlfriend died, I swore at her grave I would never fall in love with another woman. I have kept this oath, but I want out of it. Should I ask her first, or am I just crazy. Help me out with advice please.

My sister is having an affair with her boss and I wanna scream at her and call her a "whore" and a "homewrecker". I think she is blinded by the money he spends on her. I think that she is the kind of girl that if she is wined and dined, she'd spread her legs. It makes me want to vomit because I am so the opposite of that. My husband told me to tone it down because if I told her exactly what I thought using "negative" adjectives/nouns/pronouns that I would completely alienate her. My sister's vagina can be bought. I am so disgusted with her. She might go to hell for this.

I have been with the same guy for almost 4 years now. I am faithful and I love him but I'm just not sure I am "in-love" with him. I thought I was and maybe I was at one time but now I'm not so sure. See the problem is that I don't find him physically attractive well at least not as attractive as guys I've dated in the past. I thought that I could get over it because he is a really good guy and he treats me pretty good, better that any of those good lookin guys from my past. But latley I just don't have any interest in having sex with him. But really I'm not sure if it's him or if I just don't feel like having sex with anyone. I try to think about other guys and see if I get excited about having sex with them but I really don't. Also the major problem that his unattractivness causes me is that I am embarressed to introduce him to people as my boyfriend. I feel like they are thinking "what is she doing with him?". Not that I'm a super model or anything but I'm not unattractive. My boyfriend knows that I had a problem with his looks in the begining because apparently one night ( I don't remeber) I told him that I would never date him because I wasn"t attracted to him ( this was before we started going out). I tell him that I don't feel that way anymore and that I love him and so I find him attractive because of that but I really don't. I feel like I'm being really insensative, selfish, and conceited but I don't know what else to do. He loves me with all his heart and I know that he would do anything for me . He try's to make sure that I am always happy but I still feel like I'm settelling. Am I a bitch? Well that is my secret, I don't find my boyfriend attractive.

Ok it all started in 7'th grade i burn'd down a store,robed a store started beating people hang with all the bad guys do wery bad stuff i started to do marijuana (weed) after a while i started selling marijuana started off with a kilo everything was fine then after two monts the police was on me and my friends they started following us we started to notice them so what do i do i called a frend and told him to sell my stuff all be going to usa so he did i never got the money anyway am here but i realy wanna go back home dont know if i can stay clean there that shit is colling me any ideas?

Hello, my name is christina. My best friend is being beat up by her mom and she dosn't wan't me to tell. what should i do? Please help