I love my wife, but I don't get all of the sex I want. (Once a week is not enough and even then, it's just going through the motions for her.) I've been actively seeking females to have sex with, and oddly, I don't feel too much guilt about it. I guess I feel "If she doesn't want it, then why can't I give it to someone else?"

Okay I have never done this before but here it is. I have this major issue and I feel maybe Im being a bad person. Im married and have been with this guy for 8 years now. We have 2 children. The last year though I have wanted someone else. He is all I think about. When I go to sleep, when I wake up and all day long. I cant get him out of my head. There are a couple problems though. He lives so far away. Second problem I guess Im scared as I have never felt like this before and I have always been faithful to everyone I have ever been with. Even in my marriage. But on the second hand my husband has been in several flings. I still dont know for sure if any of them were physical but in the least to me it is wrong. So why am I feeling like Iam? Im lost. Should I feel guilty for feeling the way I do about this other man? I love everything about him that I know so far. I never in my life thought that I would feel this way about another person. Can someone explain to me why? Or is there even an answer? We have talked about getting together and Im willing to take that step. But not sure if it would be the right step either. I want him so much. I have no desire for my husband at this time. What should I do?

I really need help because i used to live in california and i move back to Kentucky. And left my girlfriend over there in california. I want to go back because i missed her a lot. Shes being a great women and i really missed her a lot. I want to go back over there because when i left her she was crying and i feel really bad about it.

Ok- Now im left without that cyber sexing freak Maria for one night- How will I cope without her? Shes going out to celebrate her wedding anniversary... I wonder if I should turn up to that restaurant and meet her in the loos? She has been teasing me with the camel tattoo idea - She knows I have this wild fascination with Camels - (me being a camel trainer and all...) I sometimes wonder if all her promises are real? I mean would someone really get a tattoo of a camel for me? Can someone advise if I should trade her in for a better model or if I should persist and se what eventuates?

When I was about 16, I would ride my motorcycle to some sand piles near my home. A railroad ran behind them. Once or twice, I pulled down my pants and exposed myself as a train went by!!

I was married for 18 years, many of them were unhappy. I had 3 wonderful children and I love them very much. I have been divorced for several years now. I am beginning to doubt my parenting skills because I have none. Why did I even have kids?

Sometimes (or a lot of times, i should say) I think about really bad stuff i, or anyone else could do with getting away with it. For example, I thought of a way to sneak a razor on an aiplane. I didn't actually do it, but i thought about it. Things like that always come to my mind. I don't think this is normal. I am also extremely good at eavesdropping. Somehow I've trained myself to unconciously listen to other people's convo. While I'm doing something else. These skills often come in handy, but i think they might not be a good thing to do.

Following on from my initial post - This lady is driving me insane - now she wants ten pins - chocolate flavoured ones - Has Dr Phil read this yet?