I am completely in love with my girlfriend. We have been together for two years and we have had rough times but I love her with all my heart. There's a few problems with this. We are going to be at least 400 miles apart for the next 4 years, with visits very seldom, like once a month. Also, I have cheated on her twice. I haven't slept with anyone else, but I've made out with a couple of girls and with one of them, I met a few times and while we didn't have sex, we were naked and making out on two seperate occasions. I couldn't go through with having sex with her, but I almost did. I know this is wrong and I feel bad about it, and I think I will tell my girlfriend if and only if we get married someday. I'm not so sure if I can stay monogamous either. When I'm sober I have no problem but if I'm drunk and an attractive girl hits on me, I just don't know what I will do. 9 times out of 10 I won't do anything, but once in a while... I also am very curious about having a threesome, but my girlfriend is not into that. I would prefer two girls but I said if she wanted to then we could have a threesome with her bisexual friend. I am not physically attracted to men, but one time when I was by myself I tested out that theory in the movie Road Trip, you know, about the prostate stimulation? Let me tell you this, it's 100% true. I don't like the idea of sex with a man and so that is not an option, but I wouldnt mind bringing toys into my relationship with my girlfriend. Problem is, she's not into that. Oh well, I guess it's not a big deal. I just wouldn't mind spicing up our sex life, especially since it is so spread out, time wise.

I think I'm a nymphomniac, I cant stop thinking about sex, and i cant stop having one night stands, everyone calls me a slag. if i'm not doing it i'm thinking about it!

I'm married and happy but secretly attracted to men. I chat online with guys and even do the cyber/webcam thing. I'm not sure I'm gay because I love my wife, but I can't seem to stop. Are any other guys out there into this but not sure why. It makes me feel guilty and confused.

I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and we have lived together for maybe 2 years. Well recently we moved in to an apartment with his sister and brother. I have always been mildly attracted to his brother but now that I live here I have had an urge to kiss him, screw him, anything just to be with him. It feels different than how I feel about my boyfriend. The problem is I'm not sure how the brother feels. I mean it seems to me that he feel the same way because he is always flirting with me and doing almost anything i ask him to. I am just so worried that if i decide to do anything, or if anything happens it will screw up everything, not just with my boyfriend but with his family and our friends also. Please help!

When I was a little boy I killed an entire litter of puppies i just threw one after another down a very deep well till there where no more left. I felt sad afterwards because I was all out of puppies and rocks had to do due.

I am a genius. As in, Mensa qualified, ridiculously intelligent genius (though occasionally redundant). The problem is that, while I am good at everything I try, I am not great at anything. Sort of the "Jack of all trades, master of none" idea. I am terrified that I will go through life without finding anything that I am great at.

I was in first grade and there was this one little jerk of a kid who brought in his set of dinosaur toys to scool. He had two of the same one, and I asked if I could see one of them, but he wouldn't let me. So during recess I went in to use the bathroom, and then went and took his toy out of his cubby and put it in my backpack. When the rest of the class got back, he noticed it was gone at the end of the day, and he thought I did it, and asked me if I did, but I denied it. I know it's bad but.... it felt good taking it. I still have it.

I think I'm depressed and maybe suicidal. But I'm not sure. See, I think alot about killing myself, and I cut myself, and I'm always sad or upset and I hate the way my life is, it's turning out all wrong, i wish i could just start over iwtha clean slate, but.. well, i can rationalize everything. I KNOW cutting myself is bad, and say i wont do it again, but i do anyways, the regret it all over again. I know my life isn't THAT bad, but yet i hate it, and then myself for hating a life i should be proud to have. And I cant honestly sit down and say 'well, it's not like I've made any commitments to try suicide' but at the same time I will spend HOURS a day researchingt erh most painless, easy ways to go. But i justify this as just wanting to be knowledgable. So can you be suicidal and know it? Or, be depressed and realize it but rationalize it in your mind so that it seems perfectly okay and reasonable?