My husband and I are separated and it's more likely we'll divorce, not reconcile - which is okay since we're still friends...but I still love him - so this has been hard. If my life wasn't messy enough: I have a male friend who is married to another friend of mine...I've been infatuated with him for years (yes, he knows and is flattered) and he told me recently they are having serious marital problems - his wife didn't confide this to me, just him. So now I'm torn - I know even if they split, we'd never end up together because it would be way too weird for me to handle...but....I had the chance to sleep with him around Christmas 2 years ago - and didn't do it because I couldn't be unfaithful to my husband, no matter how tempting my friend was. I've always regretted it - and if the chance presented itself now - I'd do it, regardless of the potential consequences. A - I really want this...soon.

I secretly have a gay crush on one of my best friends. Everyone assumes I am straight. I have had straight relationships in the past (never for very long), and he has had some fairly serious straight relationships in his past. I get mixed signals from him. Sometimes I could swear he is into me, and other times he seems distant. This is starting to consume a large portion of my thoughts on a daily basis. I love him. Should I tell him and risk our friendship? Or should I keep it on the down-low and risk never knowing the truth?

I'm afraid of dating you because I know I'd only be using you to fill in the time between now and him. I'm sorry.

I'm so sick and tired of waiting for you. I've wasted almost 6 years waiting for you to give a shit about me, and it's not paying off. How much longer will I have to wait for you to finally get it through your head that I WANT to be with you forever? My friends all say I need to move on, to leave you in the dust, and I lie and say I have moved on. Every night, I pray you'll change your mind. And every day I'm more disappointed than the last. The truth is, I'll hold on to you until you give in and say you love me, or tell me to fuck off. I'm getting tired of sitting here, so you'd better make up your mind soon.

I would throw away everything to be your wife, and the sad part is, you don't even know I exist. There, I said it.

I tell myself that I'll get over you someday, that so-and-so is marriage material, but deep down, I know that you're the only human being on this earth that I'll ever want to spend the rest of my life with. I want to run to you so badly. Every day I feel like I'm banging myself against the bars of my cage and I wish you would come and open the door and let me out. I would throw every -opportunity- I have away if I could board a plane to Europe and be with you in 48 hours. I love you.

I was a heavy drug user. Years passed by since detox. Now I'm a successful manager in a dump of a city but that all works well. However, i still occasionally use xanax, which used to be my therapy some years ago when i was getting off. I felt the need to tell that to someone and i told my mom, hoping for some comfort and advice (I'm 27 btw). She said it's alright, just do your job. "I believe in you son". Btw my parents are divorced. The next day she's phoning my dad (who happens to be my employer) telling him im doing heroin soon, that i need to go back to to her and into rehab. Being smart enough i manage to pull out with dad and continue my work, but basically losing a lot of trust i have built for 6 months now working. Thanks for listening.

You lie to everyone and say I have mental problems to hide the fact that you're in therapy because your parents think you're not normal. I'm the not one who was hung up over my 1-month boyfriend for 2 years and slept in my mom's bed, crying and having hallucinations about him. Thanks a lot Ali.