I met the love of my life, my wife. She is amazing. However her mother is a repulsive villainous person, who has given her so many complexes, abandonment issues, constantly gives her back handed compliments. Her mother is a covert narcissist who has a favorite son. She is a high key misogynist. When I met her she played this victim story about the abandoned wife, then all my sisters and bros in laws told me how she was a party girl who made 8 year olds drive to get booze. She tried to play with my feeling, except i have 0 sympathy for her. I see her as a duty, i want her to be alive because I know the love of my life loves her. But I find her lack of accountability and guilt repulsive. Everything about her.