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I'm too young. I wish it were different. I found someone who I truly connect with. I have never felt like this about anyone so far. I feel comfortable around him. I have never been an open person. I can't open up to anyone, not even my parents or best friend. I build huge walls around myself. And for so long I was fine with that. Sure, it was lonely at times, but I could deal with that. It never affected me much. But now he came along, and I feel so happy. I get a big stupid grin on my face whenever talking to him (he lives in the next state; we call) and I find myself thinking about him a lot. I know it isn't just infatuation this time, cause this feels different. When I'm with him I can lower my guard a little. Remove a few layers of my almost impenetrable wall. And I know he feels the same way. But I also know that it can never become more than friendship. I'm 14. He's 19. The age difference is too great. I just wish I met him at a point where 4-5 years wasn't too much.
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Hello, I am Vi. I am 13, but hopefully despite my age I can impart some wisdom on you.
What you're going through is difficult. It's okay to feel the way you're feeling right now. I want you to know that no matter what happens, there is someone out there who is there for you, even if it doesn't always seem that way.
I know you probably aren't looking for advice, but here are a couple of ideas.
1. You can always wait till you are older to start a romantic relationship, and just keep it friendly for now. If he really loves you, he will wait to start a romantic relationship, especially considering the circumstances.
2. Love is love, and I don't blame you for feeling this way. You can't control who you are attracted to.
3. If he ever, and I mean ever, pressures you into doing anything sexual or romantic that you don't want to do then take preventive action. I don't know your full situation, but you I beg you to protect yourself. He might argue saying things like, "if you really love me, -
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immaentp;
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you will do this," or, "if you don't do this I'll stop talking to you." If he ever threatens to harm you or himself then the situation is out of hand.
4. If #3 ever happens, you can take action by blocking him, reporting him to your parents or a school counselor, or reporting him to the police. I know it might be embarrassing or frightening to do so, but in the long term you will be glad you did so. Also keep in mind that the police deal with many situations like #3, and they won't yell at you or blame you. If you have good, responsible parents, they won't either. They'll comfort you and help you.
5. There are lots of terrible people in the world, but there are also many good people. I hope I am one of them. I hope your friends and family are too.
6. End it if you want to. You don't have to stay with him. You aren't bound to him.
In the end, as long as you wait are safe about things, do whatever you want. It was brave of you to admit to share everything you did, and I'm not here-
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immaentp;
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to boss you around. I know I wrote a lot in my comments, it's just that your situation is understandable and I want you to be safe and happy. I believe you can be both. I'm here to talk about things if you ever want, but defanintly no pressure. The extravert side showed through me today lol. Idk if you can read my name but it is something like I'mma ENTP or some shit lol. (btw are you good with cussing, i have some mormon friends who arent lol, so i can try to keep it clean) The ENTP part is my mbti results, which is basically just a personality test that gives you four letters that apply to your personality. Anyways, the E in ENTP just mean extravert. Which I am lol. Also if you wanna talk to an extravert, I'm trying to figure out if I should start wearing makeup. Like I said I'm 13, so you can guess approximently which grade I'm going into. Lots of girls my age wear makeup, so I'm trying to decide if I should to. I don't really like wearing makeup tho. What do you think I should do?
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immaentp;
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to boss you around. I know I wrote a lot in my comments, it's just that your situation is understandable and I want you to be safe and happy. I believe you can be both. I'm here to talk about things if you ever want, but defanintly no pressure. The extravert side showed through me today lol. Idk if you can read my name but it is something like I'mma ENTP or some shit lol. (btw are you good with cussing, i have some mormon friends who arent lol, so i can try to keep it clean) The ENTP part is my mbti results, which is basically just a personality test that gives you four letters that apply to your personality. Anyways, the E in ENTP just mean extravert. Which I am lol. Also if you wanna talk to an extravert, I'm trying to figure out if I should start wearing makeup. Like I said I'm 13, so you can guess approximently which grade I'm going into. Lots of girls my age wear makeup, so I'm trying to decide if I should to. I don't really like wearing makeup tho. What do you think I should do?
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